Tag Archives: transition

I Miss My Tears

Posted on February 4, 2016 by Kyle

Have you ever had sex so good it made you cry? I’ve been there and done that more than once.  I’ve been so moved by the connection and passion I’m experiencing with my lover that I’ve sobbed and cried with … Continue reading →

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Trans*date – 9 months on T: Come on Get Higher

Posted on March 28, 2015 by Kyle

This morning, I recorded myself singing Come On Get Higher (Matt Nathanson).   The name of the song, as well as a frequent thought as I attempt to sing songs I used to sing before testosterone… “Come on, get higher!”

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The Way She Sees Me

Posted on February 15, 2015 by Kyle

My new love, the one who seems most able to make love stay in a way that makes my heart sing and thump and shake it’s rump… she sees me.  This morning I sent her a picture of my morning … Continue reading →

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Trans*date 01-10-2015: the Evolution of my Singing Voice

Posted on January 10, 2015 by Kyle

I recorded myself singing a couple of days ago, singing a song that I’ve been learning over the last month, Ball and Chain by Max Gomez.  After I posted that recording to YouTube, I listened to the recording I did … Continue reading →

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Imagining Myself Whole

Posted on April 17, 2014 by Kyle

This may end up being a bit rambly, so bear with me if you can. I had a therapy session recently.  We talked about my transition work which is all about coming out in my professional life these days.  We … Continue reading →

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Healing Conversation

Posted on May 24, 2013 by Kyle

My wife and I had a conversation the other night, a ground-breaking, amazing conversation.  I ended up staying up late, which I paid for the next day in mindless exhaustion, but I’m glad we did it.  It started with her … Continue reading →

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