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Tag Archives: transgender
Trans*date, 2014.5.13, Making Appointments
I have decided that I’m definitely going to be taking testosterone, now much and how soon are not decided yet. Â I have made an appointment to talk to my primary health care provider, my butch NP, about getting started. Â That’s … Continue reading
Posted in genderqueer, Genderqueer Transition, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged gender, genderqueer, introspection, transgender, transition mission
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It Hits Me At Odd Moments
I’ve been thinking a lot about transition, my transition, the one I’m designing specifically for myself. Â I’ve been thinking about the changes that will result from taking T, looking through the list as though memorizing it will magically give me … Continue reading
Posted in Coming Out Genderqueer, finding me, gender, genderqueer, transgender
Tagged gender, genderqueer, genderqueer transition, introspection, transgender
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Decisions, Decisions
Have you ever done that thing where you believe you’ve been considering and processing and evaluating something for a long time and then you realize that, no, you really weren’t? That’s where I am right now. Â And I know the … Continue reading
Posted in exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, identity, introspection, transgender
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Imagining Myself Whole
This may end up being a bit rambly, so bear with me if you can. I had a therapy session recently. Â We talked about my transition work which is all about coming out in my professional life these days. Â We … Continue reading
Coming Out to The World… on the Topic of ‘Junk’ and Medical Transition
I’m working on an FAQ, one that I want to make available to co-workers, friends, family, etc. and I asked folks on Facebook to forward me questions that they thought I should address in my FAQ… I’ve gotten some great … Continue reading
Posted in coming out at work, Coming Out Genderqueer, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, my genderqueer life, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged coming out genderqueer, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, identity, transgender
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Coming Out At Work: Hearing My Pronouns in Use
Yesterday, I overheard a co-worker talking to a candidate for one of our proposals. Â The co-worker, Bob, was getting some additional information for me. Â Bob consistently and without hesitation used he/him/his when referring to me in that conversation. I wanted … Continue reading
Coming Out At Work
I came out at work today, by way of an all-staff email. Â This was a step I wasn’t going to take for another couple of weeks, but life takes funny turns sometimes. Â After coming out to my parents (I’ll post … Continue reading
“What is the worst that could happen?”
I’ve realized something recently, something about the way I handle my true truths and the way I reveal or hide them from others. Â I’ve had a hard time opening up to some people in my life about what I really … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, finding me, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, I'm taking the wheel, my genderqueer life, non-conforming gender presentation, The Therapy Chronicles, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, identity, introspection, Mrs. Kyle, transgender
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Reviewing The Unintentional Time Traveler by Everett Maroon
The Unintentional Time Traveler by Everett Maroon is a soon to be released young adult novel introducing Jack, a self-deprecating and entertainingly sarcastic fifteen year old boy with a knack for automotive repair and self-acceptance beyond his age. Â He suffers … Continue reading
Posted in exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, GLBTQQIAA Youth, reading list, reviews
Tagged Everett Maroon, gender, gender non-conforming, identity, LGBTQ YA fiction, reviews, The Unintentional Time Traveler, transgender
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Transgender Traveler Questions… for trans masculine travelers
In the past couple of months, I’ve gotten a couple of inquiries from folks asking for advice on traveling transgender. Â These happened to be trans masculine folks who were specifically asking about what to do with their packies. Â In each … Continue reading