Tag Archives: transgender

Living up to Our Words

Posted on June 11, 2017 by Kyle

I read this at Olympia’s Equality March for Unity and Pride today: This is the Equality March for Unity and Pride Pride … Unity…. Equality…. Powerful words, powerful enough to bring us together today. But what do they mean? I’ve … Continue reading →

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Steamy Shower Pic

Posted on September 3, 2016 by Kyle

I don’t know when I’ll be able to get top surgery, but transition has given me a lot that I am able to enjoy every day, like body hair, which grows with black castor oil for hair growth.  I had … Continue reading →

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Trans*date 07.11.2016: My New Name is Two Years Old

Posted on July 11, 2016 by Kyle

Two years ago on 7/11/2014, I rechristened myself with a new legal name.  A month before that, I’d started taking testosterone. At the urging of some friends, I’m going to share some of what I’ve learned about myself, about transition, … Continue reading →

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I Miss My Tears

Posted on February 4, 2016 by Kyle

Have you ever had sex so good it made you cry? I’ve been there and done that more than once.  I’ve been so moved by the connection and passion I’m experiencing with my lover that I’ve sobbed and cried with … Continue reading →

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Blog Tour for Show Yourself to Me

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

If you’d like to read what others have written about Xan West’s fantastic collection of queer kinky erotica, here is the entire blog tour itinerary: The stops on the blog tour: October 1: Xan West https://xanwest.wordpress.com/ October 2: Book Birthday! Go … Continue reading →

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Interview with Xan West, author of Show Yourself To Me

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

Xan West is one of my favorite authors, a master at writing savory, sexy queer erotica that pulls the reader in until you forget you’re not part of the scene.  It’s exciting to see the buzz rising for Xan’s anthology, … Continue reading →

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Book Review: Show Yourself To Me by Xan West

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

I’m not even going to pretend to be unbiased — I love Xan West‘s writing.  I have been a fan since discovering Xan’s work ages ago.  My fandom is mainly based on Xan’s ability to write hot, nuanced sex scenes … Continue reading →

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Trans*date 2015-08-02: Pictures Speak – One Year Later

Posted on August 2, 2015 by Kyle

I’ve been taking testosterone for about a year and a month.  I’ve been letting my facial hair grow to see what it does when I don’t shave or trim it.  We start with two pictures taken in June 2014, right … Continue reading →

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Now that I have Facial Hair, It’s Easier to Be Feminine

Posted on July 27, 2015 by Kyle

You might be looking at this post with a quizzical eye, maybe an eyebrow lift.  Or maybe you’ve been through all this and you’re nodding in recognition. It’s not something that happened right away, but as my appearance and voice … Continue reading →

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Book Review: Lost Boi by Sassafras Lowrey

Posted on July 19, 2015 by Kyle

I remember reading social media updates from Sassafras Lowrey while ze was writing this novel, updates that spoke in excited tones about the characters and the way the story was unfolding. Now I know why. Lost Boi is a retelling … Continue reading →

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