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Tag Archives: Spawn1
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During my yoga practice this morning, we were thinking and meditating on how we spend our time and what ‘habits of frequency’ we engaged in as a part of our self-care and as a part of our involvement with those … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, meditation, parenting, relationships
Tagged community, family, friends, Girlfriend, Hippy Goddess, Mrs. Kyle, Oregon Girl, parenting, Spawn1, Spawn2
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What I’m Up To… January Edition
We are about midway through January and I haven’t given you all an update in a while, so here goes. Dating Ruby… Â is awesome. Â We’ve got our next outing planned, in Portland. Â We’ll be going the Queer Honky Tonk and … Continue reading
Posted in dating, parenting, relationships, slices of life, The Novel, writing
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, Pizza Klatch, polyamorous, relationships, Ruby, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad, writing
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End of October Update
Tons going on lately… are you ready? Date Number 2 with Ruby! Â We’ve been heating things up over the interwebs and she’s now promising to pounce on me this Saturday. Â YES! Â We’re going to have dinner and drinks at various … Continue reading
Posted in crushes, dating, parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report, The Novel
Tagged family, friends, introspection, Mrs. Kyle, Nick, parenting, poly is hard, polyamorous, Pretty Lady, relationships, Roxy, Ruby, SexyLadyFriend, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad, yoga
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Suburban Butch Dad Report, early July
I haven’t written a Suburban Butch Dad Report in a while, and some of you may be wondering what the heck is going on with my family. The Elder Spawn is a full of teen-aged angst and drama, turning 14 … Continue reading
Posted in Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged family, Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Teenager in the House
Today is my Elder Spawn’s 13th birthday.  She is officially a teenager today, but she’s been exhibiting teen behaviors for a while.  She has all the normal pain-in-the-butt attributes of teendom  but she’s also pretty cool.  She has proven herself … Continue reading
Posted in Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Sisters
I asked my youngest, “What does your shirt say?” She looked down, and traced a word “Tisser! Â Little Tisser… but I’m big, not little.” “That’s right, you’re big, but you’re still the little sister. Â Who’s the big sister?” She pauses, … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged gender, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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Genderqueer week(s) in review
A collection of gender related happenings in recent days and weeks. gender at work At the office, along with making magic happen with 1s and 0s, I’ve been involved in an agonizing process called: Â get the next contract. Â There have … Continue reading
Posted in anti-oppression work, bdsm, butch/trans/genderqueer, community, exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, my selves, parenting, slices of life, transgender
Tagged educating about gender, gender non-conforming, Gender Odyssey, genderqueer, Spawn1, Spawn2, transgender
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Home Remedy
Hello blog friends, I’ve been having quite a roller-coaster couple of weeks. Â The actual calendar events aren’t all that impressive, but my moods have been swinging like the 20s. Â Yes, it is possible that I am entering that phase that … Continue reading
Posted in slices of life, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged depression, Roxy, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: ElderSpawn Keeps Her Options Open
I had a very quick conversation with my ElderSpawn a couple of mornings ago about some rumors going around about her. Â This is the first I’d heard and I wanted to dig deeper into it, but she was literally on … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged parenting, Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Passing on the Family Business of Speaking Up For Yourself
I would like to share a Proud Parenting Moment concerning my Elder Spawn. Â Tonight she stood up for her beliefs and for what she wanted, in the face of opposition by some privileged, spoiled popular girls on her soccer team. … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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