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Rising Waters

When I experience anxiety attacks, it feels like claustrophobia. My breathing becomes rapid and shallow and I feel like the walls are closing in.  The other analogy is that the water is rising and I’m struggling to keep my head … Continue reading

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Coming Up For Air

Though I have been going through a lot of hard stuff lately, it’s not all gloom and doom, so let’s lighten it up with some of the good things happening in my life: I’m starting therapy today and although some … Continue reading

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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…

Did I suck you in with that?  Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people?  Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys?  Or.. or… yeah, no.  It did kinda … Continue reading

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The what’s happening guide to this week in Butchtastic

I’m finding that I have so much to talk about that if I waited until Sunday, my SBDR post would be humongous, so here’s some stuff to catch you up: Yesterday afternoon, my family plus ElderSpawn’s best friend drove north … Continue reading

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refactoring my life.. a continuous improvement project

I realize that mathematicians have a different definition of ‘refactoring’, but for software engineering types like me it means returning to old code in order to improve it.  I was talking with Roxy the other day about a strategy I’ve been employing … Continue reading

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Time to get Submissive

Natt Nightly just popped up on twitter passing on news about a new book project and a call for submissions from gender-variants of all stripes to contribute to Stalled, “a book of experiences in sex-segregated spaces in the words of … Continue reading

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Suburban Genderfuckery

One of my great joys is genderfucking in my everyday life.  I pack a cock in my briefs every day and I’m sure (hoping really) that I’m causing brains to spin a bit as people try to reconcile my boobs … Continue reading

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Saturday with my Sweetheart

[Part two of my recent visit with Roxy] Saturday morning, and I’m awake before she is.  She always sleeps deeply with me, I help her relax, she says she feels safe and secure.  Unfortunately, I didn’t sleep very well that … Continue reading

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Insecurity, you can kiss my ass

Nadia asked me a question about insecurity in poly relationships via formspring.me and I finally answered it this weekend.   Well, I answered an aspect of the question.  I talked about some of the insecurities that come up in polyamorous … Continue reading

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NYCSBCP: the flight to NYC

I got up pretty early to start my journey to New York, 3 a.m. to be precise.  I had to fly out of SeaTac at 6:00 pm and didn’t want to test the system by cutting it too close.  I … Continue reading

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