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Tag Archives: slices of life
Rising Waters
When I experience anxiety attacks, it feels like claustrophobia. My breathing becomes rapid and shallow and I feel like the walls are closing in. Â The other analogy is that the water is rising and I’m struggling to keep my head … Continue reading
Posted in slices of life
Tagged anxiety attack, panic attack, slices of life, unemployment
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Coming Up For Air
Though I have been going through a lot of hard stuff lately, it’s not all gloom and doom, so let’s lighten it up with some of the good things happening in my life: I’m starting therapy today and although some … Continue reading
Posted in butches, parenting, queer life
Tagged butch brothers, Elijah, family, friends, Nick, slices of life
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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…
Did I suck you in with that? Â Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people? Â Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys? Â Or.. or… yeah, no. Â It did kinda … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, slices of life
Tagged family, Mrs. Kyle, parenting, slices of life, writing
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The what’s happening guide to this week in Butchtastic
I’m finding that I have so much to talk about that if I waited until Sunday, my SBDR post would be humongous, so here’s some stuff to catch you up: Yesterday afternoon, my family plus ElderSpawn’s best friend drove north … Continue reading
refactoring my life.. a continuous improvement project
I realize that mathematicians have a different definition of ‘refactoring’, but for software engineering types like me it means returning to old code in order to improve it.  I was talking with Roxy the other day about a strategy I’ve been employing … Continue reading
Time to get Submissive
Natt Nightly just popped up on twitter passing on news about a new book project and a call for submissions from gender-variants of all stripes to contribute to Stalled, “a book of experiences in sex-segregated spaces in the words of … Continue reading
Posted in gender, public service announcement
Tagged friends, gender, Roxy, slices of life, writing
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Suburban Genderfuckery
One of my great joys is genderfucking in my everyday life. Â I pack a cock in my briefs every day and I’m sure (hoping really) that I’m causing brains to spin a bit as people try to reconcile my boobs … Continue reading
Posted in gender, slices of life
Tagged gender, genderfuck, slices of life, suburban genderfuckery
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Saturday with my Sweetheart
[Part two of my recent visit with Roxy] Saturday morning, and I’m awake before she is. Â She always sleeps deeply with me, I help her relax, she says she feels safe and secure. Â Unfortunately, I didn’t sleep very well that … Continue reading
Insecurity, you can kiss my ass
Nadia asked me a question about insecurity in poly relationships via formspring.me and I finally answered it this weekend. Â Well, I answered an aspect of the question. Â I talked about some of the insecurities that come up in polyamorous … Continue reading
Posted in relationships, slices of life
Tagged polyamorous, relationships, slices of life
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NYCSBCP: the flight to NYC
I got up pretty early to start my journey to New York, 3 a.m. to be precise. Â I had to fly out of SeaTac at 6:00 pm and didn’t want to test the system by cutting it too close. Â I … Continue reading