Tag Archives: Roxy

The sharp, sweet sting of Her love

Posted on February 15, 2012 by Kyle

I lie open to Her, exposed and vulnerable, and, as always, still trying to be the warrior, despite my exposure. She stands before me, strong stance, commanding eyes, steady grip on the flogger.  The chaotic world is still swirling around … Continue reading →

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Into her arms

Posted on February 9, 2012 by Kyle

Later today, I’ll board a jet and head south to the Bay Area.  I’ll arrive late, but she’ll be there.  My lover.  My partner.  My best friend and hand-fasted mate.  She’ll be there with a smile and kisses and wonderfully … Continue reading →

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Suburban Butch Dad Report: a groom to be?

Posted on February 6, 2012 by Kyle

If you’re tracking queer related news in the US, you probably noticed that Washington State took a big step toward legalizing queer marriages the other day.  Elder Spawn and I went to the capitol to be on hand for part … Continue reading →

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missing her

Posted on January 26, 2012 by Kyle

There are times when I miss her so purely it’s as if a hole has opened up in my center, open and aching for her.  There’s just so much going on lately, for both of us, we don’t get the … Continue reading →

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Changing the World Begins *here*

Posted on January 16, 2012 by Kyle

There is a lot I’d like to change about the world, a lot that frustrates me, plenty that makes me grieve for my fellow earthlings.  It’s easy to lay blame, to say ‘someone oughta do something!’, and I’m certainly guilty … Continue reading →

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For Roxy: at midnight, think of me

Posted on December 31, 2011 by Kyle

Hello there, angel.  Another year is kicking the bucket and a new one is about to draw its first breaths.  You know I’d be with you, kissing you as the clock strikes midnight if I could. And, at midnight, I’ll … Continue reading →

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A little holiday brag

Posted on December 31, 2011 by Kyle

I did very well these holidays, gifts-wise.  In fact, it was quite the butchtastic Christmas for me (and man-rific, fab-boy-lous). My wife gave me two ties:  one silver on silver (will look great with  my new black button down) and … Continue reading →

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Having a bad Gender Day

Posted on December 5, 2011 by Kyle

It’s happened to all of us, the haircut that suddenly doesn’t work, or something about the humidity that causes our hair to refuse to do what we want it to.  Bad hair days happen.  And as I found out this … Continue reading →

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My place in her home…

Posted on November 26, 2011 by Kyle

My sweet love, Roxy, posted a picture to her blog of the anniversary gift she prepared for me, and I’m just gonna tell ya’ll to check it out.  I love how she finds so many ways, big and small, to demonstrate … Continue reading →

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tampons for … men?

Posted on November 23, 2011 by Kyle

Roxy asked me this question today: “Kyle, when you use a tampon, do you consider it a feminine product, or a masculine one?” Well, first of all, we had to roust Kyle from his position on the couch, watching porn … Continue reading →

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