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Tag Archives: real love
Date Not Derailed by Bad Shrimp
I started feeling iffy on the way to her house. Switchy Witchy Woman and I had a date this weekend, and not just a ‘going out for drinks’ kind of date, this was to be my first sleepover in her … Continue reading
About My Lover…
I need to tell you about my lover. There’s a lot to say, multiple blog posts worth for sure. I’ll start with this: I have never loved someone in such a clear-headed way before. I’ve talked about being addicted to … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged anniversary, boyfriend, Girlfriend, my love, real love, Switchy Witchy Woman
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The Way She Sees Me
My new love, the one who seems most able to make love stay in a way that makes my heart sing and thump and shake it’s rump… she sees me. This morning I sent her a picture of my morning … Continue reading
Posted in Genderqueer Transition, relationships, transgender
Tagged being seen, big love, genderqueer, genderqueer transition, Girlfriend, my love, poetry, real love, transgender, transition, WitchyWoman
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Like a Clear Blue Sky
About a month ago, one of my poems was published in the Elephant Journal… I want my love to be like a clear blue sky with perfect conditions for flying I want my life to be an excellent launch pad … Continue reading
Posted in poetry, published
Tagged Elephant Journal, love, poetry, polyamorous, real love
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Keep the Receipts
It’s easy to focus on the big events in the life of a relationship – the shows, the trips out of town, the parties and dates in fancy restaurants. Those are the places you took selfies with her and checked … Continue reading
Posted in dating, my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, heartbreak, introspection, real love, relationships
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Yes, My Love, It Was Beautiful
She asked me, in a voice full of tears, “It was beautiful, wasn’t it?” We were both crying into our phones, our hearts breaking as it sank in. She’d just told me that she’d decided to pursue monogamy with someone … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged big love, Girlfriend, love beyond time, Oregon Girl, poly is hard, real love
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full and floating on her love
I had to leave San Francisco last night. Had to leave my lover, Roxy, and the wonderful weekend we had. I don’t want to dwell on the sadness of leaving, but I feel it, certainly. Instead I want to take … Continue reading