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Tag Archives: polyamory
On October 6th, my blog turned 8. Eight years of blogging about sex, gender, relationships, parenting, and whatever else comes bubbling to the surface. Throughout those years and all those posts (1,148 total), I’ve posted some pretty vulnerable stuff, digging … Continue reading
So much of the time I come to this entry screen to moan and groan about how hard life is but today I want to revel in the awesomeness I’m experiencing lately. I want to roll around in it and … Continue reading
Ruby, the voluptuous Portland hottie who I am fortunate to call ‘girlfriend’, recently visited Olympia to catch up with a BFF and for the occasion of our fourth date. At some point I’m sure I’ll lose track of the actual … Continue reading
Jenna asks: A while ago invited your blog readers to ask you anything. So I’m asking. How do you define “in love” and do you think it is possible to maintain an “in love” state with the same person for … Continue reading
I try to live my life in such a way that I won’t be confronted by a long list of regrets in my last moments. Nonetheless, I have plenty and can only hope to outnumber them with an even longer … Continue reading
In case you haven’t tuned into the poly interview series Sinclair is running on Sugarbutch Chronicles, you really should. Every post is wisdom gleaned from a different person’s own experience, so the posts are high on practical and realistic, low … Continue reading
Something I thumbed into my iPhone notes app one day last week… What do I want? I want to enjoy my joy. I want to enjoy it in a full throated and ecstatic way. I want to celebrate my joy … Continue reading
I posted a fantasy yesterday about a knight patiently waiting for a chance to serve his sovereign. It is at once how I feel in my heart of hearts and also not truthful accounting of reality. The truth is, I’m … Continue reading