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I have once again come to a place where I realize that I’m trying to do too much. Â I’m over committing myself in excess of my resources of time and energy. Â I’m fucking exhausted many days, mostly work days. Â I’m … Continue reading
What is it about last kisses? Is it better to know what they are when they happen? Or to not know at the time? What do you think? The two times I’ve known I was having last kisses with someone … Continue reading
She asked me, in a voice full of tears, “It was beautiful, wasn’t it?” We were both crying into our phones, our hearts breaking as it sank in. Â She’d just told me that she’d decided to pursue monogamy with someone … Continue reading
Sometimes what you fear becomes reality and no amount of affirmations can cure that wound. Â Knowing is definitely better than not knowing. Â Feeling numb is better than feeling anything, at least for a while. I guess I should write some … Continue reading
These are the affirmations I’m using to help me navigate rough emotional waters: I will hold my center by not giving into the negative thoughts and patterns that attempt to control me. I will hold positive, loving thoughts rather than … Continue reading
It seems that I’ve answered this question numerous times over the years but the answer keeps evolving. Â So when Oregon Girl asked me this morning, I realized that I did have something slightly new to say about it. It used … Continue reading
I’m writing this before I know if I’ll post it or not. Â I’m writing it because I’m used to writing about All. The. Things. Â I’m writing because it helps me to get things out of my head. Â Especially hard things. … Continue reading
Maybe it’s the hormones, maybe I’m mentally exhausted from NaNoWriMo month and stress at work. Â Maybe it’s because I don’t get to see Â my girlfriend until after the holidays and that makes it harder to feel generous about the time … Continue reading
Tons going on lately… are you ready? Date Number 2 with Ruby! Â We’ve been heating things up over the interwebs and she’s now promising to pounce on me this Saturday. Â YES! Â We’re going to have dinner and drinks at various … Continue reading