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Tag Archives: Mrs. Kyle
Cleaning Out My Pockets
Before I head out of town and out of internet range for the weekend, I should empty my pockets and do a few updates. Illness Update: Â I’m finally well again. Â I got a flu virus right after I got my … Continue reading
Posted in about writing, cleaning out my pockets, relationships, slices of life, writer news, writing
Tagged contests, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, Roxy, writing
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The Difficulty of Communicating Me
A conversation with my wife this morning, one in a series on gender identity and the binary, pointed a bright spotlight on an area of my personal identity journey my wife has serious issues with: Â my male identity. OK, it’s … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: Passing on the Family Business of Speaking Up For Yourself
I would like to share a Proud Parenting Moment concerning my Elder Spawn. Â Tonight she stood up for her beliefs and for what she wanted, in the face of opposition by some privileged, spoiled popular girls on her soccer team. … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: a groom to be?
If you’re tracking queer related news in the US, you probably noticed that Washington State took a big step toward legalizing queer marriages the other day. Â Elder Spawn and I went to the capitol to be on hand for part … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged marriage equality, Mrs. Kyle, poly is hard, polyamorous, relationships, Roxy
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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…
Did I suck you in with that? Â Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people? Â Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys? Â Or.. or… yeah, no. Â It did kinda … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, slices of life
Tagged family, Mrs. Kyle, parenting, slices of life, writing
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Bachelor Time
[ed note: Â wrote this on Wednesday, but obviously didn’t get it posted right away… so thar be updates amongst it] This evening I’ll drive my family up to the airport, help them get into the security and kiss them goodbye. … Continue reading
Posted in Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged family, gender, Mrs. Kyle, Roxy, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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Appreciating life
Today is my birthday and I’m feeling really grateful and happy, even though things aren’t going completely as planned today. Â The wee Bun is still running a temp and so we won’t be going out to eat at one of … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: closing out 2010
As the last week of 2010 meanders along, I’m busy with holiday related activities, my family and fulfilling my personal goals. Â We had a pretty good Christmas with a holiday party on the Eve, then family brunch at our house … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Roxy, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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my wife and I
I received this comment on a post I did a few days ago. Â In that post I talked about event drop, and how I was dealing with the double-dose I received recently. Â Katie B didn’t really address my post, but … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, relationships
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, polyamorous, relationships, Roxy
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: responding to gender ignorance/policing
I was standing on the sideline of my daughter’s soccer game this weekend when a prime teaching opportunity presented itself. Â The topic was gender nonconformity, the potential student was another parent, someone I consider a good friend. I was presented … Continue reading
Posted in community, exploring gender, finding me, gender, parenting, slices of life
Tagged gender, genderqueer, identity, introspection, Mrs. Kyle, suburban butch dad
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