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Hi, I'm Kyle - a writer of queerotica, a transbear and kinky switch. Thanks for stopping by.
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Tag Archives: Mrs. Kyle
VideoPost: What’s for Dinner? and other Compelling Information
Video shot in my back yard, no editing. Hey, I really mean it: Â send me questions to answer in my videos! Â I’ve only received one question so far.
For those of you visiting for the first time…
Some of you are visiting Butchtastic for the first time because you’ve read a guest post I have on NeutroisNonsense. Â Some of you are friends of mine, some are friends of my wife, some are friends of both of us. … Continue reading
Posted in Butchtastic Stuff
Tagged blog bidness, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, relationships
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Happy Anniversary, Red
Red and I spent the weekend together celebrating our anniversary (12/13/14). Â One year ago today, we had our first date/sleepover/declaration of love. Â Did we move pretty fast? Â I suppose so, though the results completely validate our actions. Â A year later, … Continue reading
Posted in my love, relationships
Tagged anniversary, Girlfriend, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, polycule, queer family, Red, relationships
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Lots of New Visitors: Hello!
There has been an influx of new readers lately, a lot of you connecting with my blog through the Slate article by Vanessa Vitiello Urquhart that I was quoted in. For the benefit of the new folks, here’s a little … Continue reading
Posted in community, site news
Tagged blog bidness, butch, erotica, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, Girlfriend, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, transgender, writing
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One More Sleep
My lover is moving to Olympia tomorrow. Â She’ll be in a hotel room for two nights and then come to my house to care for our cats while my family and I are on vacation in Florida. One more sleep. … Continue reading
Posted in family, my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, relationships, Switchy Witchy Woman
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Commitments
During my yoga practice this morning, we were thinking and meditating on how we spend our time and what ‘habits of frequency’ we engaged in as a part of our self-care and as a part of our involvement with those … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, meditation, parenting, relationships
Tagged community, family, friends, Girlfriend, Hippy Goddess, Mrs. Kyle, Oregon Girl, parenting, Spawn1, Spawn2
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Life is Really Awesome
So much of the time I come to this entry screen to moan and groan about how hard life is but today I want to revel in the awesomeness I’m experiencing lately. Â I want to roll around in it and … Continue reading
Posted in crushes, dating, relationships
Tagged big love, Hippy Goddess, Mrs. Kyle, Oregon Girl, polyamory, relationships, suburban butch dad
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Trans*date 2014.06.03: Talking to Parents
Yesterday, I called my mom to talk to her about the next steps I’ll be taking in transition. Â I thought for a few rings that it would go to voicemail and I was relieved. Â Then she picked up. Â She sounded … Continue reading
Posted in Coming Out Genderqueer, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, Genderqueer Transition, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged genderqueer, genderqueer transition, identity, Mrs. Kyle, name change, transgender
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“What is the worst that could happen?”
I’ve realized something recently, something about the way I handle my true truths and the way I reveal or hide them from others. Â I’ve had a hard time opening up to some people in my life about what I really … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, finding me, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, I'm taking the wheel, my genderqueer life, non-conforming gender presentation, The Therapy Chronicles, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, identity, introspection, Mrs. Kyle, transgender
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What I’m Up To… January Edition
We are about midway through January and I haven’t given you all an update in a while, so here goes. Dating Ruby… Â is awesome. Â We’ve got our next outing planned, in Portland. Â We’ll be going the Queer Honky Tonk and … Continue reading
Posted in dating, parenting, relationships, slices of life, The Novel, writing
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, Pizza Klatch, polyamorous, relationships, Ruby, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad, writing
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