Tag Archives: Mal

BSQ: Boys, Sweat and Queersex

Posted on March 2, 2015 by Kyle

A few weeks ago, my lover and I made our way to Seattle to play hard at Blood, Sweat and Queers, a monthly play party at the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture.  It was a big night for us. … Continue reading →

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Returning to the Dungeon

Posted on February 6, 2015 by Kyle

Tomorrow night I will be attending a public play party for the first time in two years.  The last time I went to the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture (nee The Wetspot), I was triple topped in a powerful … Continue reading →

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Trans* Folks, Where do You Get Your Fashion Cues From?

Posted on January 30, 2015 by Kyle

While talking to my boyfriend, Mal, the other day, we got on the topic of masculine fashion and our personal styles.  I feel like my style borrows somewhat from my high school days, but also from my take on working … Continue reading →

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Date Night with My Boyfriend

Posted on January 18, 2015 by Kyle

We were in a saltwater town on the peninsula, holding hands and kissing every chance we got.  Sitting in one of the many pizza joints with a lot of other Seahawks fans watching the game, I looked across the table … Continue reading →

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Aggression, Anger and Topping: Finding the Way Through My Inner Maze

Posted on January 16, 2015 by Kyle

If I visualize my inner landscape as a maze, which isn’t hard to do, I can see my whole life as a journey toward the center of the maze.  What do I expect to find there?  I’m not sure, really, … Continue reading →

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