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Tag Archives: identity
For about eight years now, I’ve been aware that I had an issue with sleeping. I remember my girlfriend waking me up and being very alarmed. “You stopped breathing!” Oh, that’s what that is, I thought to myself. I’d been … Continue reading
If you’d like to read what others have written about Xan West’s fantastic collection of queer kinky erotica, here is the entire blog tour itinerary: The stops on the blog tour: October 1: Xan West https://xanwest.wordpress.com/ October 2: Book Birthday! Go … Continue reading
You might be looking at this post with a quizzical eye, maybe an eyebrow lift. Or maybe you’ve been through all this and you’re nodding in recognition. It’s not something that happened right away, but as my appearance and voice … Continue reading
The me that you see is not the whole of me I’m looking out through these eyes longing for a wider view longing to be viewed to be seen for all you are good, bad, misguided, enlightened, lifted and low … Continue reading
I’ve been thinking about this question a lot lately. Yeah, more than usual. A year ago that question and most answers centered around who I was in relationship to transition. Or who I was in relationship to relationships. Today it’s … Continue reading
I’ve been searching for a while for a way to describe how I feel about my breasts. For a while now, I’ve felt somewhat apologetic about my lack of hatred for them. I’ve never hated them in the way that … Continue reading
I sent a letter to family and selected friends of the family, telling them about my transition and upcoming name change. This is the beginning of me being able to be a lot more open about my identity and what … Continue reading
Most of transition is not spent accomplishing big things that you can celebrate and note in your journal. Most of transition is spent just doing the common, normal day-to-day tasks of life. And this is where I find myself now … Continue reading
If I had a broken leg or a tumor, I’d go to a specialist and get a diagnosis and a course of action for treatment. I wouldn’t have to research the injury or ailment and come up with a solution, … Continue reading