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Tag Archives: Girlfriend
About My Lover…
I need to tell you about my lover. There’s a lot to say, multiple blog posts worth for sure. I’ll start with this: I have never loved someone in such a clear-headed way before. I’ve talked about being addicted to … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged anniversary, boyfriend, Girlfriend, my love, real love, Switchy Witchy Woman
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The Way She Sees Me
My new love, the one who seems most able to make love stay in a way that makes my heart sing and thump and shake it’s rump… she sees me. This morning I sent her a picture of my morning … Continue reading
Posted in Genderqueer Transition, relationships, transgender
Tagged being seen, big love, genderqueer, genderqueer transition, Girlfriend, my love, poetry, real love, transgender, transition, WitchyWoman
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Hug With Caution
I returned home from an overnight date with WitchyWoman yesterday and received a lovely and enthusiastic greeting from my Spawn2. Now, I love an enthusiastic hug, and my children are very good at delivering them, the only complaint I had … Continue reading
Keep the Receipts
It’s easy to focus on the big events in the life of a relationship – the shows, the trips out of town, the parties and dates in fancy restaurants. Those are the places you took selfies with her and checked … Continue reading
Posted in dating, my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, heartbreak, introspection, real love, relationships
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Last Kiss
What is it about last kisses? Is it better to know what they are when they happen? Or to not know at the time? What do you think? The two times I’ve known I was having last kisses with someone … Continue reading
Posted in my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, love beyond time, one last kiss, poly is hard
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Yes, My Love, It Was Beautiful
She asked me, in a voice full of tears, “It was beautiful, wasn’t it?” We were both crying into our phones, our hearts breaking as it sank in. She’d just told me that she’d decided to pursue monogamy with someone … Continue reading
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Tagged big love, Girlfriend, love beyond time, Oregon Girl, poly is hard, real love
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And then sometimes…
Sometimes what you fear becomes reality and no amount of affirmations can cure that wound. Knowing is definitely better than not knowing. Feeling numb is better than feeling anything, at least for a while. I guess I should write some … Continue reading
More Powerful Without My Armor
She came into my life like a lightening bolt from a clear sky. Special, unique, rare. That’s what Oregon Girl is for me. Within the love we are making, I feel more vulnerable and open all the time. She shows … Continue reading
Posted in dating, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, love wins again, making love, Oregon Girl, relationships
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I Need You
I need you like water fresh clean filling me washing over me hold me up and cleanse me baptize me in your love . I need you like air clear fresh filling my lungs caressing my skin cool me down … Continue reading
Swimming in the Deep End
My girlfriend, Oregon Girl, has a blog called Swimming in the Deep End. She’s smart and clever and writes insightful posts and sexy posts and poetry like this: real love tastes like freedom uncaged and limitless smells like petrichor earthy … Continue reading