Tag Archives: genderqueer

Smart, Vulnerable Posts on my Partner’s Blog

Posted on September 17, 2016 by Kyle

Red has been doing some deep thinking lately about gender and sex. You should check it out: Never Say Never: More Gender Stuff #realtalk #IPEEWHENISQUIRT This latter one is particularly vulnerable… and this is what I think:  If you temporarily … Continue reading →

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Blog Tour for Show Yourself to Me

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

If you’d like to read what others have written about Xan West’s fantastic collection of queer kinky erotica, here is the entire blog tour itinerary: The stops on the blog tour: October 1: Xan West https://xanwest.wordpress.com/ October 2: Book Birthday! Go … Continue reading →

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Interview with Xan West, author of Show Yourself To Me

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

Xan West is one of my favorite authors, a master at writing savory, sexy queer erotica that pulls the reader in until you forget you’re not part of the scene.  It’s exciting to see the buzz rising for Xan’s anthology, … Continue reading →

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Book Review: Show Yourself To Me by Xan West

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

I’m not even going to pretend to be unbiased — I love Xan West‘s writing.  I have been a fan since discovering Xan’s work ages ago.  My fandom is mainly based on Xan’s ability to write hot, nuanced sex scenes … Continue reading →

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Trans*date 2015-08-02: Pictures Speak – One Year Later

Posted on August 2, 2015 by Kyle

I’ve been taking testosterone for about a year and a month.  I’ve been letting my facial hair grow to see what it does when I don’t shave or trim it.  We start with two pictures taken in June 2014, right … Continue reading →

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Now that I have Facial Hair, It’s Easier to Be Feminine

Posted on July 27, 2015 by Kyle

You might be looking at this post with a quizzical eye, maybe an eyebrow lift.  Or maybe you’ve been through all this and you’re nodding in recognition. It’s not something that happened right away, but as my appearance and voice … Continue reading →

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Book Review: Lost Boi by Sassafras Lowrey

Posted on July 19, 2015 by Kyle

I remember reading social media updates from Sassafras Lowrey while ze was writing this novel, updates that spoke in excited tones about the characters and the way the story was unfolding. Now I know why. Lost Boi is a retelling … Continue reading →

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Seeing Myself

Posted on July 3, 2015 by Kyle

I used to imagine what I’d look like if I born male, if I were born with the expected physical features of biological maleness.  I’d give myself facial hair and mentally take the roundness out of my cheeks and let … Continue reading →

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Lots of New Visitors: Hello!

Posted on April 27, 2015 by Kyle

There has been an influx of new readers lately, a lot of you connecting with my blog through the Slate article by Vanessa Vitiello Urquhart that I was quoted in. For the benefit of the new folks, here’s a little … Continue reading →

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Trans*date – 9 months on T: Come on Get Higher

Posted on March 28, 2015 by Kyle

This morning, I recorded myself singing Come On Get Higher (Matt Nathanson).   The name of the song, as well as a frequent thought as I attempt to sing songs I used to sing before testosterone… “Come on, get higher!”

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