Tag Archives: genderfuck

Book Review: Show Yourself To Me by Xan West

I’m not even going to pretend to be unbiased — I love Xan West‘s writing.  I have been a fan since discovering Xan’s work ages ago.  My fandom is mainly based on Xan’s ability to write hot, nuanced sex scenes … Continue reading

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Calls for Submission… Letters For My Siblings

Micah, at NeutroisNonsense, made an exciting announcement a couple of weeks ago:  Transgress Press had chosen them to be the co-editor on an anthology entitled Letters For My Siblings.  Here’s some info, for more look to Micah’s post. Deadline: February 1, … Continue reading

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Updated Blog List (Trans*, Genderqueer, Butch, Genderfluid, Masculine of Center)

I’ve just added two blogs to my Big Blog List and I’m working to update the list with some information on blogs that are no longer active or on hiatus.  As always, if you know of a blog you think … Continue reading

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Gender Odyssey 2013, Day 2

[I started writing this at the end of Day 2, and only just finished it…] Today was a busy day and I’m tired to the bone, but I want to catch you all up before I get a beer and … Continue reading

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Gender Odyssey, Day 1

What a whirlwind!  Nick and I arrived at the Silver Cloud Hotel Thursday night (much later than anticipated because of dreadful traffic on I5) and went next door to The Garage for a meet and greet.  We met up with … Continue reading

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Trans Pride is Coming to Seattle This Friday

This Friday, June 28th, there’s gonna be a big trans party in Seattle called Trans Pride.  From the website, Trans*Pride is a pride event organized by Gender Justice League in affiliation with Seattle Out & Proud and fiscally sponsored by Gay City Health Project. It … Continue reading

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Genderqueer Moments….

Yesterday, I caught a sideways glance of myself in a mirror and it was one of those cognitive dissonance moments.  What I saw was a dude with boobs… as if my head belonged to a guy and was put on someone else’s body. … Continue reading

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Looks

I was checking out at a local grocery store with my bag of salt & pepper chips when I got some very interesting looks from the cashier.  Twenty something and friendly, she looked at me for a long moment when … Continue reading

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Reviewing Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica

When Cleis Press contacted me about reviewing this book, Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, I responded immediately. I’d been waiting for this to come out and had been kicking myself over not knowing about it in time to … Continue reading

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Link Love for July

Here are some websites, programs and organizations that have caught my eye in the past several weeks and I want to share them with you: First up, a place I hope to get to know very well, the Center for … Continue reading

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