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Tag Archives: gender
Reviewing The Unintentional Time Traveler by Everett Maroon
The Unintentional Time Traveler by Everett Maroon is a soon to be released young adult novel introducing Jack, a self-deprecating and entertainingly sarcastic fifteen year old boy with a knack for automotive repair and self-acceptance beyond his age. Â He suffers … Continue reading
Posted in exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, GLBTQQIAA Youth, reading list, reviews
Tagged Everett Maroon, gender, gender non-conforming, identity, LGBTQ YA fiction, reviews, The Unintentional Time Traveler, transgender
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Gender Odyssey 2013, Day 2
[I started writing this at the end of Day 2, and only just finished it…] Today was a busy day and I’m tired to the bone, but I want to catch you all up before I get a beer and … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, community, exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, transgender, Uncategorized
Tagged butch, community, friends, gender, gender non-conforming, Gender Odyssey, genderfuck, genderqueer, transgender
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Thoughts on T
A friend asked me the other day if I was moving closer to transition, meaning medical transition. Â He’s post top surgery and has been on testosterone for a while and feels awesome and thinks I might feel awesome on T … Continue reading
More on My New Trans Narrative
A follow on thought relate to my last post…. One of the most familiar trans narratives is that of the person who is born into the wrong body, or feels trapped in the wrong body. Â That narrative has been repeated … Continue reading
#GOconf2013, My Personal Gender Odyssey
One difference for me between this year’s Gender Odyssey conference and last year’s was that I spent a lot less time this year telling the story of my trans narrative. Â Part of that is due to the workshops I attended, … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, finding me, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, transgender
Tagged gender, gender non-conforming, Gender Odyssey, genderqueer, identity, transgender
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Gender Odyssey, Day 1
What a whirlwind! Â Nick and I arrived at the Silver Cloud Hotel Thursday night (much later than anticipated because of dreadful traffic on I5) and went next door to The Garage for a meet and greet. Â We met up with … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, community, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, transgender, workshops
Tagged community, gender, gender non-conforming, Gender Odyssey, genderfuck, genderqueer, identity, transgender
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Yes, Cauliflower
Have you ever wondered where butches come from? Butch Origins More from this cartoonist… Â Vaiinui de Castelbajac Thanks to GeekPornGirl for posting this.
On Butch Identity, Masculinity and Being Intentional
mas·cu·lin·i·ty (msky-ln-t)  n. pl. mas·cu·lin·i·ties 1. The quality or condition of being masculine. 2. Something traditionally considered to be characteristic of a male. mas·cu·line (msky-ln)  adj. 1. Of or relating to men or boys; male. 2. Suggestive or characteristic of … Continue reading
The Difficulty of Communicating Me
A conversation with my wife this morning, one in a series on gender identity and the binary, pointed a bright spotlight on an area of my personal identity journey my wife has serious issues with: Â my male identity. OK, it’s … Continue reading
More on Roving Pack
As often happens after I hit the ‘publish’ button, today I had some additional thoughts about Roving Pack, the novel by Sassafras Lowrey, that I recently reviewed. In the review, I said that I was inspired and called to write … Continue reading
Posted in about writing, butch/trans/genderqueer, community, exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, transgender
Tagged gender, gender identity, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, writing
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