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Tag Archives: gender identity
Smart, Vulnerable Posts on my Partner’s Blog
Red has been doing some deep thinking lately about gender and sex. You should check it out: Never Say Never: More Gender Stuff #realtalk #IPEEWHENISQUIRT This latter one is particularly vulnerable… and this is what I think: If you temporarily … Continue reading
Posted in exploring gender, sexy friends
Tagged gender identity, genderfluid, genderqueer, Red, say no to sex shaming, sex, squirting
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Unsure
Another Buddy monologue, a bit from the novel-in-progress: I had become unsure of my place in the world. Was I a woman who looked like a man and felt like one sometimes? Was I a man trapped in a woman’s … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, queer life, writing
Tagged Buddy, gender identity, identity, novel in progress
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More on Roving Pack
As often happens after I hit the ‘publish’ button, today I had some additional thoughts about Roving Pack, the novel by Sassafras Lowrey, that I recently reviewed. In the review, I said that I was inspired and called to write … Continue reading
to be one of the guys
I briefly saw an advertisement for one of those ultimate fighting matches on TV today. Just a flash of naked male torsos, heavy muscles and swagger. I was left with an after taste of envy. There is a part of … Continue reading
Posted in gender, gender non-conforming, my selves
Tagged gender identity, privilege
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Climbing out of the Sink Hole of Self-Doubt
I had one of those days yesterday. One of those days when I question myself and my identity. I fell prey to an old envy, the envy I sometimes feel when I find out a butch or genderqueer friend has … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, finding me, gender, my selves
Tagged gender identity, genderqueer, questioning, Roxy, transgender
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Having a bad Gender Day
It’s happened to all of us, the haircut that suddenly doesn’t work, or something about the humidity that causes our hair to refuse to do what we want it to. Bad hair days happen. And as I found out this … Continue reading
What if… speculating on alternative birth stories
I went out for beers and barbeque with my buddy, Arron, a couple of days ago and, as usual, we had a great time. I downloaded some of my experiences from Butch Voices, talked about the Butch Voices vs. Butch … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, my selves, slices of life
Tagged Arron, gender identity, genderqueer, Roxy
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My Workshop at the Center for Sex Positive Culture
I’m going to be leading my workshop Beyond the Check-Boxes: Exploring Genderqueer Identity at the Center for Sex Positive Culture next Thursday, 9/1. The workshop is from 7-9pm, doors open at 6:30 at the Annex. Cost is $20 at the … Continue reading
Posted in gender, workshops
Tagged gender identity, genderqueer, identity, seattle center for sex positive culture
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