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I’m Having a Non-Consensual Monday

Monday came to my door early this morning, even though I didn’t want it.  The delivery person held out a clipboard and told me I had to sign for it but I hesitated, reached out and then withdrew my hand. … Continue reading

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BSQ: a fun night of community, hot scenes, hot dogs and ass-kickings

A couple of Saturday’s ago, Neighbor Femme and I drove up to Seattle to spend some time together and go to the Blood, Sweat and Queers play party at the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture (formerly the Wet Spot). … Continue reading

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Breathe in, Breathe out

I woke up this morning thinking about breathing, or more specifically, intake.  I felt refreshed, I felt calm, the house was quiet and I was relaxed.  I took in some deep breaths and exhaled fully.  I started thinking about all … Continue reading

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Bachelor week: progress report

Let’s see, it’s Tuesday, so I’m almost a week into my bachelor time here at the House of Kyle.   Let’s catch up a little. Friday night, I headed downtown to the Brotherhood, one of my favorite bars to hang … Continue reading

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Appreciating life

Today is my birthday and I’m feeling really grateful and happy, even though things aren’t going completely as planned today.  The wee Bun is still running a temp and so we won’t be going out to eat at one of … Continue reading

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Time to get Submissive

Natt Nightly just popped up on twitter passing on news about a new book project and a call for submissions from gender-variants of all stripes to contribute to Stalled, “a book of experiences in sex-segregated spaces in the words of … Continue reading

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Sunday in Seattle: Leather and Cher

It’s possible the title of this post is misleading since I didn’t actually see Cher in Seattle this past Sunday.  I did, however, meet one of her most fervent and vocal fans, Jesse James of Just Like Jesse James blog … Continue reading

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Butchtastic First Birthday Contest entries: PaganKelly, sculpture

My apologies for taking so long to post this.. I lost track.. thanks for the reminder, Kelly. There were two ways to enter my Butchtastic First Birthday Contest.  The entrant could write a story about meeting me or send me … Continue reading

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The Suburban Butch Dad Report

Welcome to the first edition of the Suburban Butch Dad Report, dateline Olympia 01/31/2010. I live in suburbia, on a large lot that backs up to a heavily wooded city park.  Not a bad place to raise kids, all schools … Continue reading

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Going to California… Friday Night’s Story

Last Friday evening, I flew down to San Francisco to visit Roxy, only the second time I’ve been there and the sixth time we’ve been in the same physical space together.  Our last togetherness was in November, the trip to … Continue reading

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