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Hi, I'm Kyle - a writer of queerotica, a transbear and kinky switch. Thanks for stopping by.
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Tag Archives: family
Super Fun Weekend
I traveled to LA this weekend to help my brother celebrate his Doctorate. I went with the other members of our family of origin, joined by his husband’s sister, one of my exes who he’s close to, three long time … Continue reading
Commitments
During my yoga practice this morning, we were thinking and meditating on how we spend our time and what ‘habits of frequency’ we engaged in as a part of our self-care and as a part of our involvement with those … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, meditation, parenting, relationships
Tagged community, family, friends, Girlfriend, Hippy Goddess, Mrs. Kyle, Oregon Girl, parenting, Spawn1, Spawn2
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End of October Update
Tons going on lately… are you ready? Date Number 2 with Ruby! We’ve been heating things up over the interwebs and she’s now promising to pounce on me this Saturday. YES! We’re going to have dinner and drinks at various … Continue reading
Posted in crushes, dating, parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report, The Novel
Tagged family, friends, introspection, Mrs. Kyle, Nick, parenting, poly is hard, polyamorous, Pretty Lady, relationships, Roxy, Ruby, SexyLadyFriend, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad, yoga
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The Suburban Butch Dad Report: Wedding Day Approaches…
Ackkkk!!!! Ackk!!! OMG… !!!! I have become one of THOSE PEOPLE, the people who get more and more stressed out as their wedding day approaches.. I am a Stressed Out Groom!! In two days, two all too short days, I’ll … Continue reading
Posted in relationships, slices of life, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged family, friends, Mrs. Kyle, wedding day
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Suburban Butch Dad Report, early July
I haven’t written a Suburban Butch Dad Report in a while, and some of you may be wondering what the heck is going on with my family. The Elder Spawn is a full of teen-aged angst and drama, turning 14 … Continue reading
Posted in Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged family, Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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Coming Up For Air
Though I have been going through a lot of hard stuff lately, it’s not all gloom and doom, so let’s lighten it up with some of the good things happening in my life: I’m starting therapy today and although some … Continue reading
Posted in butches, parenting, queer life
Tagged butch brothers, Elijah, family, friends, Nick, slices of life
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Breathe in, Breathe out
I woke up this morning thinking about breathing, or more specifically, intake. I felt refreshed, I felt calm, the house was quiet and I was relaxed. I took in some deep breaths and exhaled fully. I started thinking about all … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, slices of life
Tagged family, friends, healthy living, just breathe
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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…
Did I suck you in with that? Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people? Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys? Or.. or… yeah, no. It did kinda … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, slices of life
Tagged family, Mrs. Kyle, parenting, slices of life, writing
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howdy y’all
I miss you guys, my readers. I also miss words, writing them, savoring them in my mind before rattling them out through my keyboard. I’ve been busy, that’s nothing new, but lately it’s been .. just hard. I seriously concentrate … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: Bachelor Time
[ed note: wrote this on Wednesday, but obviously didn’t get it posted right away… so thar be updates amongst it] This evening I’ll drive my family up to the airport, help them get into the security and kiss them goodbye. … Continue reading
Posted in Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged family, gender, Mrs. Kyle, Roxy, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
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