Tag Archives: community

A Rare Breed… Butch Erotica Bloggers

Posted on May 4, 2013 by Kyle

Sugarbutch Chronicles… Natt Nightly… Packing Vocals… Butchtastic… When I was getting started as a butch erotic writer and sex blogger, I only knew about Sugarbutch Chronicles, written by the now very well-known, Sinclair Sexsmith.  I was blown away by the … Continue reading →

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On Butch Identity, Masculinity and Being Intentional

Posted on May 2, 2013 by Kyle

mas·cu·lin·i·ty (msky-ln-t)  n. pl. mas·cu·lin·i·ties 1. The quality or condition of being masculine. 2. Something traditionally considered to be characteristic of a male. mas·cu·line (msky-ln)  adj. 1. Of or relating to men or boys; male. 2. Suggestive or characteristic of … Continue reading →

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Get Over It? No, We Should Never Get Over Racism, Hate and Complacency

Posted on February 11, 2013 by Kyle

Once upon a time, in Portlandia, a community discovered that nestled within its heart was a festering boil of racism and complacency.  Some screamed “Boycott!!” and “Traitor!” and others yelled just as loudly about “Freedom of speech” and told the … Continue reading →

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Shout Outs for Genderqueer Blogs, Gender Odyssey Early Registration

Posted on January 14, 2013 by Kyle

I’d like to welcome Jake Jacobsen’s new blog, Genderqueer Pie Please, to the always-expanding family of Butch, Genderqueer, Gender Non-Conforming and Trans* masculine bloggers: Genderqueer isn’t a new movement, it isn’t even a movement, or new, it’s been around a long, long time, … Continue reading →

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Don’t Miss This: Mollena and Lee in Seattle

Posted on November 14, 2012 by Kyle

Mollena Williams, yes THE Mollena, and Lee Harrington are going to be at the SCSPC on Thursday night from 6-9pm, signing their amazingly good book, Playing Well with Others as well as leading a workshop… for only $25 bucks and … Continue reading →

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Cleaning out my pockets…

Posted on October 29, 2012 by Kyle

… in which I talk about a bunch of stuff that I’ve been thinking about but haven’t posted yet, somewhat like clearing my mental pockets before the start of a new week. NaNoWriMo… I’ve decided to do this crazy month-long … Continue reading →

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Trans News promotional, Packer Giveaway Contest!!

Posted on September 12, 2012 by Kyle

Something new in Trans News?  Why yes…. Trans News is a transsexual and transgender news source with a twist: all of our crowdsourced content is 100% trans positive news. To help publicize Transguys is hosting a packer giveaway contest on their … Continue reading →

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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Hate Not Welcome in My ‘Hood!

Posted on June 6, 2012 by Kyle

There is a butt load of stuff going on this week, it’s one of the busiest in a while.  One big thing happening is that the Westboro Baptist Church (sic) is coming to Olympia to get all up in our … Continue reading →

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Check these out…

Posted on November 29, 2011 by Kyle

Here are some posts that caught my eye, and may interest you as well: Do you use Boy words or Girl words?  Some real life examples of how kids tend to be much more flexible about gender than adults. An … Continue reading →

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Big Tent Blues: the Butch Voices / Butch Nation, Masculine-of-Center / Butch controversy

Posted on August 14, 2011 by Kyle

If you’re on the Butch Voices mailing list(s) or follow them on Facebook, you’ve probably seen some of the discussions that have erupted over a change in the Butch Voices mission statement.  The word ‘butch’ was taken out of the … Continue reading →

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