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What I’ve been up to

I recently realized that it’s been quiet a while since I last posted, since October 2016. I’ve been busy working on what I consider my most ambitious writing project to date – a full length fiction novel.  I’ve got some … Continue reading

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Blog Tour for Me and My Boi

There’s a new Cleis Press Erotica Anthology out and it’s making a tour of blogs via the editor and many of the writers.  At the bottom of this post, I’ve added the full blog tour list, as well as how … Continue reading

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Cracking Open

From my post to social media: June 17, 2016 Sometimes I think I’ll just crack wide open from the weight of it all. All of it. The well of pain and grief that swallowed me whole this weekend. It’s heavy … Continue reading

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eLust #82, featuring Puppy Love…

Photo courtesy of Teachers Have Sex Welcome to Elust #82 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky … Continue reading

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New Features – Brainstorming and Ask Kyle Anything

As you may know, I’ve been working on a blog redesign (thank you Mel and Matt!) and thinking up new features and fun stuff.  I had an idea today I’d like to get your opinion. My idea is to get … Continue reading

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Exactly 500 Words, a New Writing Challenge

A couple of weeks ago, I came up with a new writing exercise to stimulate myself and anyone else who wanted to participate:  write exactly 500 words based on a prompt twice a month.  This started on Facebook, where a … Continue reading

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The Emerging Face of Genderqueer

Or rather, faces …. From photographer Dave Naz comes Genderqueer: And Other Gender Identities, a beautiful collection of pictures and essays that helps illustrate the wide variety of ways people express genderqueer identity.  Some of the featured people are Morty Diamond, Jiz Lee, … Continue reading

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Sexy Fun with a Friend

A few months ago, I was chatting with my friend Evoë about some pictures she’d taken with another friend and I said, hey, we should do a photo shoot sometime.  I figured either she could use her picture taking prowess on … Continue reading

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During my yoga practice this morning, we were thinking and meditating on how we spend our time and what ‘habits of frequency’ we engaged in as a part of our self-care and as a part of our involvement with those … Continue reading

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Stories from the Queer Side…

From offbeatfamilies, a story about a Lesbian Dad… Since our son Leo was born, my partner JB has chosen to go by “Dad” rather than some variation of mother. I won’t go into too much detail about her gender identity … Continue reading

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