Tag Archives: Casey

Dis-Integration… and the Process of Becoming Whole

Posted on August 9, 2013 by Kyle

I can look back on my life now and see that through various relationships and traumatic events, I’ve become a collection of splintered selves, personality shards held together by force of habit and stubbornness, but with less and less connection … Continue reading →

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Beyond Bromance

Posted on July 18, 2011 by Kyle

This is a post from Kyle, the male half of the dual-gendered person whose blog you’re reading.  Most posts are presented by Casey, our female half. In the past couple of years, I’ve come out as transgendered, as the subbie … Continue reading →

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crushing

Posted on August 30, 2010 by Kyle

Roxy often makes observations that throw me for a loop.  She’s incredibly insightful and observant and has a way of putting things into words that is crystallizing.  The other day we were talking about some pictures, specifically, ones I’m considering … Continue reading →

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Suburban Butch Dad Report, Father’s Day Edition

Posted on June 21, 2010 by Kyle

I’ve only recently begun to relate to Father’s Day as something that pertains to me.  Last year, my wife was pregnant and I had a very vivid fantasy about being a father, and of having a son.  This year I’m … Continue reading →

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Bi-Gendered? Dual-Identity? Genderqueertastic

Posted on June 18, 2010 by Kyle

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a post where I explored the terms genderqueer and transgender with respect to my own identity.  I also came out as being poly-gender and having distinct male and female identities within my self. … Continue reading →

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Transgender, or not?

Posted on June 4, 2010 by Kyle

I’ve been thinking a lot about who, and what, I am lately, trying to figure out how to explain my complex mix of identities, genders and sexual preferences to people who don’t live inside my head.  It’s hard enough to … Continue reading →

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