Tag Archives: butch

A Rare Breed… Butch Erotica Bloggers

Posted on May 4, 2013 by Kyle

Sugarbutch Chronicles… Natt Nightly… Packing Vocals… Butchtastic… When I was getting started as a butch erotic writer and sex blogger, I only knew about Sugarbutch Chronicles, written by the now very well-known, Sinclair Sexsmith.  I was blown away by the … Continue reading →

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On Butch Identity, Masculinity and Being Intentional

Posted on May 2, 2013 by Kyle

mas·cu·lin·i·ty (msky-ln-t)  n. pl. mas·cu·lin·i·ties 1. The quality or condition of being masculine. 2. Something traditionally considered to be characteristic of a male. mas·cu·line (msky-ln)  adj. 1. Of or relating to men or boys; male. 2. Suggestive or characteristic of … Continue reading →

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Cleaning Out My Pockets

Posted on March 27, 2013 by Kyle

Tonight my family and I will be flying out to Florida for spring break.  We’ll be in the Cocoa Beach – Melbourne area staying with my not-inlaws, getting pool time, beach time and time with my wife’s relatives (both sides … Continue reading →

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More Answers to… Ask Kyle Anything

Posted on September 19, 2012 by Kyle

Neighbor Femme asks: What does being a switch look like to you? What are your thoughts on butch/femme dynamics? How does your butchness differ around a femme than around feminine women or only other butches? What does being butch around … Continue reading →

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Butch Answers

Posted on February 5, 2012 by Kyle

A few days ago, I posted a list of questions related to my butch identity, for a butch photography project.  Here are my answers: Questionnaire 1. Where are you from?   I’m from Olympia, Washington, which, contrary to what some believe, is not … Continue reading →

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Big Tent Blues: the Butch Voices / Butch Nation, Masculine-of-Center / Butch controversy

Posted on August 14, 2011 by Kyle

If you’re on the Butch Voices mailing list(s) or follow them on Facebook, you’ve probably seen some of the discussions that have erupted over a change in the Butch Voices mission statement.  The word ‘butch’ was taken out of the … Continue reading →

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Interview on My Whole Sex Life

Posted on July 29, 2011 by Kyle

Evoe Thorne has posted her interview of me as a part of her series on Gender Expression. I met Kyle after hearing him read one of his erotic short stories. I was taken in by his slow drawl, cowboy hat, … Continue reading →

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Links of interest… butches, trans, genderqueers… Oh, My

Posted on May 6, 2011 by Kyle

A few links collected from the twitterverse and blogosphere: New ways to pack…. TranZwear has come out with a line of customized underthings designed to accommodate a packy without the need for an additional pouch.  Read the review (and ogle … Continue reading →

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The Butch Nod

Posted on April 21, 2011 by Kyle

The Butch nod.  The chin lift.  A corner-of-the-mouth smile and a lifted eyebrow.  Recognition, acknowledgement of a brotherhood amongst transmasculine gender outlaws.  I invite it, offer it, look for it, but I don’t always get it. This afternoon, Roxy and I … Continue reading →

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New Additions to the B/G/T Blog List

Posted on April 19, 2011 by Kyle

The big sexy, hot, smart, fierce, masculine, amazing, handsome, strong, sweet, thoughtful, bulging, turgid list of Butch, Genderqueer, Genderfluid, Genderfucking, Masculine-of-Center and Trans Blogs Every couple of weeks, I discover a new blog or two that belongs on my list … Continue reading →

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