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A Rare Breed… Butch Erotica Bloggers

Sugarbutch Chronicles… Natt Nightly… Packing Vocals… Butchtastic… When I was getting started as a butch erotic writer and sex blogger, I only knew about Sugarbutch Chronicles, written by the now very well-known, Sinclair Sexsmith.  I was blown away by the … Continue reading

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On Butch Identity, Masculinity and Being Intentional

mas·cu·lin·i·ty (msky-ln-t)  n. pl. mas·cu·lin·i·ties 1. The quality or condition of being masculine. 2. Something traditionally considered to be characteristic of a male. mas·cu·line (msky-ln)  adj. 1. Of or relating to men or boys; male. 2. Suggestive or characteristic of … Continue reading

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Cleaning Out My Pockets

Tonight my family and I will be flying out to Florida for spring break.  We’ll be in the Cocoa Beach – Melbourne area staying with my not-inlaws, getting pool time, beach time and time with my wife’s relatives (both sides … Continue reading

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More Answers to… Ask Kyle Anything

Neighbor Femme asks: What does being a switch look like to you? What are your thoughts on butch/femme dynamics? How does your butchness differ around a femme than around feminine women or only other butches? What does being butch around … Continue reading

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Butch Answers

A few days ago, I posted a list of questions related to my butch identity, for a butch photography project.  Here are my answers: Questionnaire 1. Where are you from?   I’m from Olympia, Washington, which, contrary to what some believe, is not … Continue reading

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Big Tent Blues: the Butch Voices / Butch Nation, Masculine-of-Center / Butch controversy

If you’re on the Butch Voices mailing list(s) or follow them on Facebook, you’ve probably seen some of the discussions that have erupted over a change in the Butch Voices mission statement.  The word ‘butch’ was taken out of the … Continue reading

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Interview on My Whole Sex Life

Evoe Thorne has posted her interview of me as a part of her series on Gender Expression. I met Kyle after hearing him read one of his erotic short stories. I was taken in by his slow drawl, cowboy hat, … Continue reading

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Links of interest… butches, trans, genderqueers… Oh, My

A few links collected from the twitterverse and blogosphere: New ways to pack…. TranZwear has come out with a line of customized underthings designed to accommodate a packy without the need for an additional pouch.  Read the review (and ogle … Continue reading

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The Butch Nod

The Butch nod.  The chin lift.  A corner-of-the-mouth smile and a lifted eyebrow.  Recognition, acknowledgement of a brotherhood amongst transmasculine gender outlaws.  I invite it, offer it, look for it, but I don’t always get it. This afternoon, Roxy and I … Continue reading

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New Additions to the B/G/T Blog List

The big sexy, hot, smart, fierce, masculine, amazing, handsome, strong, sweet, thoughtful, bulging, turgid list of Butch, Genderqueer, Genderfluid, Genderfucking, Masculine-of-Center and Trans Blogs Every couple of weeks, I discover a new blog or two that belongs on my list … Continue reading

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