Tag Archives: butch

Special Delivery: a Winning Story

Posted on December 25, 2017 by Kyle

For almost 10 years I’ve made good use of an Aslan Jaguar dildo harness.  By ‘made good use of’, I mean, I’ve had a lot of really hot sex.  I’ve been a fan since I first strapped on the supple … Continue reading →

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Rough cuts: The First Time

Posted on May 27, 2016 by Kyle

From my pile of unpublished stories, something light and fun to start the weekend. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ As many times as I have fallen in love and lust, nothing matches the first time. The contradictory combination of confusion, clarity, animal lust and … Continue reading →

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Blog Tour for Show Yourself to Me

Posted on October 20, 2015 by Kyle

If you’d like to read what others have written about Xan West’s fantastic collection of queer kinky erotica, here is the entire blog tour itinerary: The stops on the blog tour: October 1: Xan West https://xanwest.wordpress.com/ October 2: Book Birthday! Go … Continue reading →

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Now that I have Facial Hair, It’s Easier to Be Feminine

Posted on July 27, 2015 by Kyle

You might be looking at this post with a quizzical eye, maybe an eyebrow lift.  Or maybe you’ve been through all this and you’re nodding in recognition. It’s not something that happened right away, but as my appearance and voice … Continue reading →

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Book Review: Lost Boi by Sassafras Lowrey

Posted on July 19, 2015 by Kyle

I remember reading social media updates from Sassafras Lowrey while ze was writing this novel, updates that spoke in excited tones about the characters and the way the story was unfolding. Now I know why. Lost Boi is a retelling … Continue reading →

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Lots of New Visitors: Hello!

Posted on April 27, 2015 by Kyle

There has been an influx of new readers lately, a lot of you connecting with my blog through the Slate article by Vanessa Vitiello Urquhart that I was quoted in. For the benefit of the new folks, here’s a little … Continue reading →

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Feeling it

Posted on April 1, 2015 by Kyle

Feeling what? Toppy….

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Interview with BD Swain on Reprobait

Posted on December 8, 2014 by Kyle

Retrobait Magazine has an interview with BD Swain that I very much enjoyed reading.  I admire BD’s style and ability to write stories that get me hot and squirming in my seat.  Reading this interview, it struck me how similar … Continue reading →

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#NaNoWriMo2014, handsome boy

Posted on November 28, 2014 by Kyle

[excerpt from day 27 of my NaNoWriMo2014 experience] I came back to the table with my beer and her cocktail, setting hers down before moving to sit across from her. “Uh… what do you think you’re doing, mister?” She lifted … Continue reading →

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#NaNoWriMo2014 Day 26, Charming

Posted on November 27, 2014 by Kyle

I arrived at Andrea’s apartment building about ten minutes early.  I double checked the address, thought about buzzing her early but talked myself out of it.  I didn’t want to appear too eager.  I walked about a half block down … Continue reading →

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