Tag Archives: bdsm

Before Negotiation… Kinkster, Know Thyself

Posted on December 2, 2012 by Kyle

The chapter on Negotiation in Playing Well with Others, really just the first few pages, has me thinking a lot about what it is I want out of my play with others.   This is mostly about people I haven’t … Continue reading →

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Don’t Miss This: Mollena and Lee in Seattle

Posted on November 14, 2012 by Kyle

Mollena Williams, yes THE Mollena, and Lee Harrington are going to be at the SCSPC on Thursday night from 6-9pm, signing their amazingly good book, Playing Well with Others as well as leading a workshop… for only $25 bucks and … Continue reading →

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Change Never Stays The Same

Posted on November 14, 2012 by Kyle

Those of you following from home know that a lot of change and turmoil has rolled through my life this year.  Changes to my relationship with Roxy have been really hard on both of us but we remain committed to … Continue reading →

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Great deal on Playing Well With Others!

Posted on November 3, 2012 by Kyle

Playing Well With Others, the outstanding book on kink, BDSM and Leather communities by Mollena Williams and Lee Harrington, is available for Kindle for only $1.99… this is a ridiculously good deal and if you can make use of that … Continue reading →

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BSQ: a fun night of community, hot scenes, hot dogs and ass-kickings

Posted on October 31, 2012 by Kyle

A couple of Saturday’s ago, Neighbor Femme and I drove up to Seattle to spend some time together and go to the Blood, Sweat and Queers play party at the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture (formerly the Wet Spot). … Continue reading →

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Catharsis, or Being Reduced to a Puddle of Tears During a Scene

Posted on October 1, 2012 by Kyle

ca·thar·sis/kəˈTHärsis/ Noun:  1. the process of releasing, and thereby providing relief from, strong or repressed emotions. Neighbor Femme and I had our first public play scene last weekend, at the Crowbar play party in Seattle.  We’d been talking and negotiating … Continue reading →

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Reviewing Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica

Posted on April 27, 2012 by Kyle

Buy this book! I didn’t have to open this book to know I’d like it.  As soon as I found out Sinclair Sexsmith would have a hand in choosing stories for this anthology, I knew it would be good.  I … Continue reading →

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It came from teh Internetz ….

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Kyle

A tour of blog posts, articles and other internet offerings that have caught my attention recently. First some news and happenings of interest to trans people and their allies: Transgender 101:  15 things to know:  quick and catchy, power point … Continue reading →

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Say Please Virtual Book Tour

Posted on April 13, 2012 by Kyle

I’ve just signed on to participate in this blogging book tour for ‘Say Please:  Lesbian BDSM Erotica: April 1      Say Please release party in SF April 1 Viviane http://www.thesexcarnival.com April 3 Rachel Kramer Bussel http://lustylady.blogspot.com April 4 Giselle Renard http://donutsdesires.blogspot.com April 5 Evoe … Continue reading →

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New Anthology Wants You to Submit!

Posted on March 18, 2012 by Kyle

Oh wow, this is an awesome anthology theme, check this out: Once upon a time, in a dungeon far, far away, you were summoned to join the quest for the hottest and kinkiest retellings of your favorite fairy tales. I’m … Continue reading →

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