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Tag Archives: bdsm
eLust #82, featuring Puppy Love…
Photo courtesy of Teachers Have Sex Welcome to Elust #82 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky … Continue reading
Blog Tour for Show Yourself to Me
If you’d like to read what others have written about Xan West’s fantastic collection of queer kinky erotica, here is the entire blog tour itinerary: The stops on the blog tour: October 1: Xan West https://xanwest.wordpress.com/ October 2: Book Birthday! Go … Continue reading
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Tagged bdsm, blog tour, butch, butch/femme, erotica, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, identity, sex, Show Yourself To Me, transgender, Xan West
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Interview with Xan West, author of Show Yourself To Me
Xan West is one of my favorite authors, a master at writing savory, sexy queer erotica that pulls the reader in until you forget you’re not part of the scene. Â It’s exciting to see the buzz rising for Xan’s anthology, … Continue reading
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Tagged bdsm, blog tour, erotica, gender, genderqueer, sex, Show Yourself To Me, transgender, writing, Xan West
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Book Review: Show Yourself To Me by Xan West
I’m not even going to pretend to be unbiased — I love Xan West‘s writing. Â I have been a fan since discovering Xan’s work ages ago. Â My fandom is mainly based on Xan’s ability to write hot, nuanced sex scenes … Continue reading
Posted in butch/femme, butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, reviews, turn ons
Tagged bdsm, blog tour, erotica, gender, gender non-conforming, genderfuck, genderqueer, reviews, Show Yourself To Me, transgender, Xan West
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Black Hankie: You Earned It
My Dearest Lover, You are amazing, do you know that? I am still in awe of the nasty beating you took from NeighborFemme and me at BSQ earlier this month. And you thought you might not perform well enough to … Continue reading
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Tagged bdsm, Black Hankie, blood sweat and tears party, Neighbor Femme, Switchy Witchy Woman, Top
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BSQ: Boys, Sweat and Queersex
A few weeks ago, my lover and I made our way to Seattle to play hard at Blood, Sweat and Queers, a monthly play party at the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture. Â It was a big night for us. … Continue reading
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Tagged bdsm, Blood, boyfriend, genderfluid, genderqueer, Mal, SCSPC, sex, Sweat and Queers, topping
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Returning to the Dungeon
Tomorrow night I will be attending a public play party for the first time in two years. Â The last time I went to the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture (nee The Wetspot), I was triple topped in a powerful … Continue reading
Aggression, Anger and Topping: Finding the Way Through My Inner Maze
If I visualize my inner landscape as a maze, which isn’t hard to do, I can see my whole life as a journey toward the center of the maze. Â What do I expect to find there? Â I’m not sure, really, … Continue reading
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Tagged bdsm, D/s, girlfriend/boyfriend, Mal, Papa/boy, topping, WitchyWoman
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Hug With Caution
I returned home from an overnight date with WitchyWoman yesterday and received a lovely and enthusiastic greeting from my Spawn2. Â Now, I love an enthusiastic hug, and my children are very good at delivering them, the only complaint I had … Continue reading