Category Archives: slices of life

The season for anniversaries

Posted on October 2, 2011 by Kyle

From September and into the new year, there is a list of special dates to celebrate: September 7th: my wife and I celebrated our 18th anniversary  October 6th:  Butchtastic is 3 years old October 14th:  4 years of polyamory November … Continue reading →

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Staying in touch

Posted on September 15, 2011 by Kyle

Hey, y’all.  I’m still here, still genderqueer… I’ve been working on a sexy story the past couple of days based on a prompt by Roxy:  Service Station.  I thought it’d be a hot and heavy quickie, but once I started … Continue reading →

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Being Present is Where I Need to Be

Posted on September 8, 2011 by Kyle

I had a crappy morning yesterday.  So crappy I don’t even want to go into it right now, but the day got better and I owe a lot to Roxy for that improvement. Later I realize that I turned the … Continue reading →

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so much so much much

Posted on August 30, 2011 by Kyle

I will come back to you, most excellent readers, as soon as I get through this crazy crunch time.  Happily I am getting through my to do list, but procrastination has made the list extra long and the deadlines extra … Continue reading →

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What if… speculating on alternative birth stories

Posted on August 27, 2011 by Kyle

I went out for beers and barbeque with my buddy, Arron, a couple of days ago and, as usual, we had a great time.  I downloaded some of my experiences from Butch Voices, talked about the Butch Voices vs. Butch … Continue reading →

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doing something scary tonight

Posted on August 6, 2011 by Kyle

I’m usually a very organized person, planning things out, considering risks, contingencies, being careful even when I’m doing things that would be outside the norms for other people.  Occasionally, however, I can be a bit impulsive.  It’s as though something … Continue reading →

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thank you, universe

Posted on August 5, 2011 by Kyle

I got a job offer yesterday and I’m going to accept it.  I start on August 15th with another local consulting company.  The guy who co-owns it is a friend and was very eager to get me into their stable, … Continue reading →

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… and then I went out

Posted on August 3, 2011 by Kyle

After having a pretty crappy, low day and writing that post yesterday, I had something to look forward to:  beers with my butch bro, Adam.  This was one part of the day not likely to be fucked up, and I … Continue reading →

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a little low, OK, a lot low

Posted on August 2, 2011 by Kyle

I’m having a hard time today, Tuesdays seem to be the worst days of the week lately.  I went to a mandatory WorkSource orientation today and even though the staff was very kind and knowledgeable, and they have lots of resources … Continue reading →

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how we ‘de-stress’

Posted on June 27, 2011 by Kyle

In order to come down out of an emotional shit storm of stress and fear, Casey uses a combination  of guided meditation and word-spewing (have ya noticed the word count lately?). In order to calm Kyle’s shit, either liberally beat … Continue reading →

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