Category Archives: slices of life

Into her arms

Later today, I’ll board a jet and head south to the Bay Area.  I’ll arrive late, but she’ll be there.  My lover.  My partner.  My best friend and hand-fasted mate.  She’ll be there with a smile and kisses and wonderfully … Continue reading

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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…

Did I suck you in with that?  Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people?  Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys?  Or.. or… yeah, no.  It did kinda … Continue reading

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missing her

There are times when I miss her so purely it’s as if a hole has opened up in my center, open and aching for her.  There’s just so much going on lately, for both of us, we don’t get the … Continue reading

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let there be light

For those who were wondering, we have gotten back on the grid at Chez Jones.  We were off for 85 hours, got our power back at 9:15 pm, Sunday night.  Yesterday, the temp came up outside and the sun came … Continue reading

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snowed in

Just a quick hello from my snow and ice bound, and powerless, home.  We’re pushing 80+ hours off the grid, but are doing alright due to some preparedness and the awesomeness of friends and neighbors.  We’ve got a generator, which … Continue reading

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Changing the World Begins *here*

There is a lot I’d like to change about the world, a lot that frustrates me, plenty that makes me grieve for my fellow earthlings.  It’s easy to lay blame, to say ‘someone oughta do something!’, and I’m certainly guilty … Continue reading

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howdy y’all

I miss you guys, my readers.  I also miss words, writing them, savoring them in my mind before rattling them out through my keyboard.  I’ve been busy, that’s nothing new, but lately it’s been .. just hard.  I seriously concentrate … Continue reading

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on my use of ‘namaste’

I just got a comment from a reader calling themselves, IndianRoots, who was questioning my use of the word ‘namaste’ in this blog.  This concerned reader asked that their comment not be published, which is fine, but they also didn’t … Continue reading

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The season for anniversaries

From September and into the new year, there is a list of special dates to celebrate: September 7th: my wife and I celebrated our 18th anniversary  October 6th:  Butchtastic is 3 years old October 14th:  4 years of polyamory November … Continue reading

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Staying in touch

Hey, y’all.  I’m still here, still genderqueer… I’ve been working on a sexy story the past couple of days based on a prompt by Roxy:  Service Station.  I thought it’d be a hot and heavy quickie, but once I started … Continue reading

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