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Category Archives: relationships
Keep the Receipts
It’s easy to focus on the big events in the life of a relationship – the shows, the trips out of town, the parties and dates in fancy restaurants. Those are the places you took selfies with her and checked … Continue reading
Posted in dating, my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, heartbreak, introspection, real love, relationships
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Last Kiss
What is it about last kisses? Is it better to know what they are when they happen? Or to not know at the time? What do you think? The two times I’ve known I was having last kisses with someone … Continue reading
Posted in my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, love beyond time, one last kiss, poly is hard
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Yes, My Love, It Was Beautiful
She asked me, in a voice full of tears, “It was beautiful, wasn’t it?” We were both crying into our phones, our hearts breaking as it sank in. She’d just told me that she’d decided to pursue monogamy with someone … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged big love, Girlfriend, love beyond time, Oregon Girl, poly is hard, real love
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I know what works for me
It has become amusing to me that trolls take the time to make comments on my blog that criticize my relationship style. It’s also pathetic that people get such joy out of the pain and heartbreak of others. That’s a … Continue reading
And then sometimes…
Sometimes what you fear becomes reality and no amount of affirmations can cure that wound. Knowing is definitely better than not knowing. Feeling numb is better than feeling anything, at least for a while. I guess I should write some … Continue reading
#NaNoWriMo2014, Day 18: On Love and Losing Control
[From my day 18 writing, not sure if this is for the novel or not, but this came out as I pondered break ups happening to people in my life and my own experiences of breaking up] When you … Continue reading
Posted in my love, relationships
Tagged big love, introspection, love wins again, relationships
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More Powerful Without My Armor
She came into my life like a lightening bolt from a clear sky. Special, unique, rare. That’s what Oregon Girl is for me. Within the love we are making, I feel more vulnerable and open all the time. She shows … Continue reading
Posted in dating, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, love wins again, making love, Oregon Girl, relationships
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What Does Poly Mean To Me
It seems that I’ve answered this question numerous times over the years but the answer keeps evolving. So when Oregon Girl asked me this morning, I realized that I did have something slightly new to say about it. It used … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, relationships
Tagged Oregon Girl, poly is hard, polyamorous, relationships
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Commitments
During my yoga practice this morning, we were thinking and meditating on how we spend our time and what ‘habits of frequency’ we engaged in as a part of our self-care and as a part of our involvement with those … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, meditation, parenting, relationships
Tagged community, family, friends, Girlfriend, Hippy Goddess, Mrs. Kyle, Oregon Girl, parenting, Spawn1, Spawn2
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So I Should Post Something About My Girlfriend…
Yeah, I know, I’m a big ol’ lazy slacker. I’ve been neglecting my blog and neglecting you all. It’s not that I haven’t thought about blogging, it’s just that I’m so busy living there doesn’t seem to be enough time … Continue reading
Posted in my love, relationships, slices of life
Tagged Girlfriend, Oregon Girl, relationships
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