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Category Archives: relationships
My Multidimensional Lover
Let me tell you about My Sweetie. After four years of loving, challenging and kinking with each other, we’re still finding new ways to find erotic and sensual pleasure. Even when we were just a few months into our relationship, … Continue reading
Celebrating 8 Years of Butchtastic
On October 6th, my blog turned 8. Eight years of blogging about sex, gender, relationships, parenting, and whatever else comes bubbling to the surface. Throughout those years and all those posts (1,148 total), I’ve posted some pretty vulnerable stuff, digging … Continue reading
Happy Anniversary, Red
Red and I spent the weekend together celebrating our anniversary (12/13/14). One year ago today, we had our first date/sleepover/declaration of love. Did we move pretty fast? I suppose so, though the results completely validate our actions. A year later, … Continue reading
Posted in my love, relationships
Tagged anniversary, Girlfriend, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, polycule, queer family, Red, relationships
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Black Hankie: You Earned It
My Dearest Lover, You are amazing, do you know that? I am still in awe of the nasty beating you took from NeighborFemme and me at BSQ earlier this month. And you thought you might not perform well enough to … Continue reading
Posted in bdsm, relationships
Tagged bdsm, Black Hankie, blood sweat and tears party, Neighbor Femme, Switchy Witchy Woman, Top
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Six Months
The thirteenth of each month, SWW and I add a notch in our relationship belt. One month, two, three, four months… it’s now been six. This love affair started while I was still sifting through the ashes of heartbreak. Not … Continue reading
Posted in dating, my love, relationships
Tagged big love, Girlfriend, hot love, love wins again, polyamorous, Switchy Witchy Woman
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Why Sex with You is So Good
I’ve told you before how fantastic sex is with you. I’ve seen you blush, heard you stammer, seen your shy but pleased smile. “Why?” you ask. Is it true that you don’t know? Please, love, let me tell you. Sex … Continue reading
Posted in erotica, my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, relationships, sex, Switchy Witchy Woman
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One More Sleep
My lover is moving to Olympia tomorrow. She’ll be in a hotel room for two nights and then come to my house to care for our cats while my family and I are on vacation in Florida. One more sleep. … Continue reading
Posted in family, my love, relationships
Tagged Girlfriend, Mrs. Kyle, polyamorous, relationships, Switchy Witchy Woman
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About My Lover…
I need to tell you about my lover. There’s a lot to say, multiple blog posts worth for sure. I’ll start with this: I have never loved someone in such a clear-headed way before. I’ve talked about being addicted to … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged anniversary, boyfriend, Girlfriend, my love, real love, Switchy Witchy Woman
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The Way She Sees Me
My new love, the one who seems most able to make love stay in a way that makes my heart sing and thump and shake it’s rump… she sees me. This morning I sent her a picture of my morning … Continue reading
Posted in Genderqueer Transition, relationships, transgender
Tagged being seen, big love, genderqueer, genderqueer transition, Girlfriend, my love, poetry, real love, transgender, transition, WitchyWoman
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Returning to the Dungeon
Tomorrow night I will be attending a public play party for the first time in two years. The last time I went to the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture (nee The Wetspot), I was triple topped in a powerful … Continue reading