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Hi, I'm Kyle - a writer of queerotica, a transbear and kinky switch. Thanks for stopping by.
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Category Archives: queer life
Cracking Open
From my post to social media: June 17, 2016 Sometimes I think I’ll just crack wide open from the weight of it all. All of it. The well of pain and grief that swallowed me whole this weekend. It’s heavy … Continue reading
Posted in allyship, anti-oppression work, community, family, queer life
Tagged community, evil of white male supremacy, internalized homophobia, introspection, LGBTQ Pride, Pulse2016, systems of oppression
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Briefly About this Weekend
This weekend was amazing and I want to come back and tell you more about it and write stories and everything… Switchy Witchy Woman hosted a dinner party on Saturday night, inviting myself as co-host and two guests, NeighborFemme and … Continue reading
Posted in my love, queer life, sexy friends
Tagged exhibitionism, hot queer bdsm, kink, like BSQ at home, Neighbor Femme, queer family, Switchy Witchy Woman
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Stories from the Queer Side…
From offbeatfamilies, a story about a Lesbian Dad… Since our son Leo was born, my partner JB has chosen to go by “Dad” rather than some variation of mother. I won’t go into too much detail about her gender identity … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, community, genderqueer, it's a queer, parenting, public service announcement, queer life
Tagged bdsm, community, genderqueer, parenting
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This Weekend in Portland…
This weekend I had a date. An in person kind of date. Â An in person, in the wonderfully sexy flesh kind of date. She lives in Portland, her name is Ruby and we had a very nice time. The end. … Continue reading
Posted in queer life, relationships, sexy friends, slices of life, turn ons, what do femmes want?
Tagged first date, Portland, Ruby
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Coming Up For Air
Though I have been going through a lot of hard stuff lately, it’s not all gloom and doom, so let’s lighten it up with some of the good things happening in my life: I’m starting therapy today and although some … Continue reading
Posted in butches, parenting, queer life
Tagged butch brothers, Elijah, family, friends, Nick, slices of life
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Unsure
Another Buddy monologue, a bit from the novel-in-progress: I had become unsure of my place in the world.  Was I a woman who looked like a man and felt like one sometimes?  Was I a man trapped in a woman’s … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, queer life, writing
Tagged Buddy, gender identity, identity, novel in progress
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What’s Kyle Doing?
What am I up to, you ask? Â There’s always plenty going on, here are a few of the items that are getting my attention and time lately: Writing up session proposals for Gender Odyssey. Â One is called Wanted: Your Stories, … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, queer life, slices of life, workshops, writer news
Tagged Gender Odyssey, parenting, SEAF, workshops, writing
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