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Category Archives: parenting
During my yoga practice this morning, we were thinking and meditating on how we spend our time and what ‘habits of frequency’ we engaged in as a part of our self-care and as a part of our involvement with those … Continue reading
From offbeatfamilies, a story about a Lesbian Dad… Since our son Leo was born, my partner JB has chosen to go by “Dad” rather than some variation of mother. I won’t go into too much detail about her gender identity … Continue reading
We are about midway through January and I haven’t given you all an update in a while, so here goes. Dating Ruby… is awesome. We’ve got our next outing planned, in Portland. We’ll be going the Queer Honky Tonk and … Continue reading
Tons going on lately… are you ready? Date Number 2 with Ruby! We’ve been heating things up over the interwebs and she’s now promising to pounce on me this Saturday. YES! We’re going to have dinner and drinks at various … Continue reading
Though I have been going through a lot of hard stuff lately, it’s not all gloom and doom, so let’s lighten it up with some of the good things happening in my life: I’m starting therapy today and although some … Continue reading
What am I up to, you ask? There’s always plenty going on, here are a few of the items that are getting my attention and time lately: Writing up session proposals for Gender Odyssey. One is called Wanted: Your Stories, … Continue reading
I asked my youngest, “What does your shirt say?” She looked down, and traced a word “Tisser! Little Tisser… but I’m big, not little.” “That’s right, you’re big, but you’re still the little sister. Who’s the big sister?” She pauses, … Continue reading
A collection of gender related happenings in recent days and weeks. gender at work At the office, along with making magic happen with 1s and 0s, I’ve been involved in an agonizing process called: get the next contract. There have … Continue reading
I had a very quick conversation with my ElderSpawn a couple of mornings ago about some rumors going around about her. This is the first I’d heard and I wanted to dig deeper into it, but she was literally on … Continue reading
I would like to share a Proud Parenting Moment concerning my Elder Spawn. Tonight she stood up for her beliefs and for what she wanted, in the face of opposition by some privileged, spoiled popular girls on her soccer team. … Continue reading