Category Archives: my selves

Taking Time

For several months now, I’ve been aware that I’m not making enough time for relaxation and recharging.  I’ve been running my batteries below zero and expecting them to kick back up to full after 6 hours of sleep.  Of course, … Continue reading

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to be one of the guys

I briefly saw an advertisement for one of those ultimate fighting matches on TV today.  Just a flash of naked male torsos, heavy muscles and swagger.  I was left with an after taste of envy.  There is a part of … Continue reading

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Verb Hunting for Genderqueers

I’ve gotten some great feedback from people on my post discussing the idea of ‘transition’ — or something verby — to describe the process genderqueers go through to become themselves.  I’ve seen transition for transsexuals described as a process to … Continue reading

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Climbing out of the Sink Hole of Self-Doubt

I had one of those days yesterday. One of those days when I question myself and my identity.  I fell prey to an old envy, the envy I sometimes feel when I find out a butch or genderqueer friend has … Continue reading

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surge

I’m feeling it right now, that surge from him.  He’s frustrated at our lack of progress.  We’ve been trying things lately, new sometimes scary things.  We put an ad out on a men for men site and got some interest, … Continue reading

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What if… speculating on alternative birth stories

I went out for beers and barbeque with my buddy, Arron, a couple of days ago and, as usual, we had a great time.  I downloaded some of my experiences from Butch Voices, talked about the Butch Voices vs. Butch … Continue reading

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Beyond Bromance

This is a post from Kyle, the male half of the dual-gendered person whose blog you’re reading.  Most posts are presented by Casey, our female half. In the past couple of years, I’ve come out as transgendered, as the subbie … Continue reading

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how we ‘de-stress’

In order to come down out of an emotional shit storm of stress and fear, Casey uses a combination  of guided meditation and word-spewing (have ya noticed the word count lately?). In order to calm Kyle’s shit, either liberally beat … Continue reading

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