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Taking Time
For several months now, I’ve been aware that I’m not making enough time for relaxation and recharging. Â I’ve been running my batteries below zero and expecting them to kick back up to full after 6 hours of sleep. Â Of course, … Continue reading
Posted in finding me, my selves, slices of life
Tagged all about me, introspection, my process
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to be one of the guys
I briefly saw an advertisement for one of those ultimate fighting matches on TV today. Â Just a flash of naked male torsos, heavy muscles and swagger. Â I was left with an after taste of envy. Â There is a part of … Continue reading
Posted in gender, gender non-conforming, my selves
Tagged gender identity, privilege
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Verb Hunting for Genderqueers
I’ve gotten some great feedback from people on my post discussing the idea of ‘transition’ — or something verby — to describe the process genderqueers go through to become themselves. Â I’ve seen transition for transsexuals described as a process to … Continue reading
Climbing out of the Sink Hole of Self-Doubt
I had one of those days yesterday. One of those days when I question myself and my identity. Â I fell prey to an old envy, the envy I sometimes feel when I find out a butch or genderqueer friend has … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, finding me, gender, my selves
Tagged gender identity, genderqueer, questioning, Roxy, transgender
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surge
I’m feeling it right now, that surge from him. Â He’s frustrated at our lack of progress. Â We’ve been trying things lately, new sometimes scary things. Â We put an ad out on a men for men site and got some interest, … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, finding me, my selves, turn ons
Tagged butch-on-butch, Daddy, faggot, genderqueer, identity, sex
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What if… speculating on alternative birth stories
I went out for beers and barbeque with my buddy, Arron, a couple of days ago and, as usual, we had a great time. Â I downloaded some of my experiences from Butch Voices, talked about the Butch Voices vs. Butch … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, my selves, slices of life
Tagged Arron, gender identity, genderqueer, Roxy
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Beyond Bromance
This is a post from Kyle, the male half of the dual-gendered person whose blog you’re reading. Â Most posts are presented by Casey, our female half. In the past couple of years, I’ve come out as transgendered, as the subbie … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, butches, crushes, exploring gender, finding me, gender, my selves, turn ons
Tagged bisexuality, Casey, Kyle, Roxy, sex, sexual identity, transfag, transgender
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how we ‘de-stress’
In order to come down out of an emotional shit storm of stress and fear, Casey uses a combination  of guided meditation and word-spewing (have ya noticed the word count lately?). In order to calm Kyle’s shit, either liberally beat … Continue reading