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Category Archives: genderqueer
Coming Out At Work: Hearing My Pronouns in Use
Yesterday, I overheard a co-worker talking to a candidate for one of our proposals. Â The co-worker, Bob, was getting some additional information for me. Â Bob consistently and without hesitation used he/him/his when referring to me in that conversation. I wanted … Continue reading
Coming Out At Work
I came out at work today, by way of an all-staff email. Â This was a step I wasn’t going to take for another couple of weeks, but life takes funny turns sometimes. Â After coming out to my parents (I’ll post … Continue reading
“What is the worst that could happen?”
I’ve realized something recently, something about the way I handle my true truths and the way I reveal or hide them from others. Â I’ve had a hard time opening up to some people in my life about what I really … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, exploring gender, finding me, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, I'm taking the wheel, my genderqueer life, non-conforming gender presentation, The Therapy Chronicles, This Genderqueer LIfe, transgender
Tagged gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, identity, introspection, Mrs. Kyle, transgender
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Stories from the Queer Side…
From offbeatfamilies, a story about a Lesbian Dad… Since our son Leo was born, my partner JB has chosen to go by “Dad” rather than some variation of mother. I won’t go into too much detail about her gender identity … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, community, genderqueer, it's a queer, parenting, public service announcement, queer life
Tagged bdsm, community, genderqueer, parenting
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Calls for Submission… Letters For My Siblings
Micah, at NeutroisNonsense, made an exciting announcement a couple of weeks ago: Â Transgress Press had chosen them to be the co-editor on an anthology entitled Letters For My Siblings. Â Here’s some info, for more look to Micah’s post. Deadline:Â February 1, … Continue reading
Posted in about writing, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, This Genderqueer LIfe, writer news, writing
Tagged calls for submission, gender non-conforming, genderfluid, genderfuck, genderqueer, Micah, Transgress Press
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Transgender Traveler Questions… for trans masculine travelers
In the past couple of months, I’ve gotten a couple of inquiries from folks asking for advice on traveling transgender. Â These happened to be trans masculine folks who were specifically asking about what to do with their packies. Â In each … Continue reading
Updated Blog List (Trans*, Genderqueer, Butch, Genderfluid, Masculine of Center)
I’ve just added two blogs to my Big Blog List and I’m working to update the list with some information on blogs that are no longer active or on hiatus. Â As always, if you know of a blog you think … Continue reading
Gender Odyssey 2013, Day 2
[I started writing this at the end of Day 2, and only just finished it…] Today was a busy day and I’m tired to the bone, but I want to catch you all up before I get a beer and … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, community, exploring gender, gender, gender non-conforming, genderqueer, non-conforming gender presentation, transgender, Uncategorized
Tagged butch, community, friends, gender, gender non-conforming, Gender Odyssey, genderfuck, genderqueer, transgender
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Thoughts on T
A friend asked me the other day if I was moving closer to transition, meaning medical transition. Â He’s post top surgery and has been on testosterone for a while and feels awesome and thinks I might feel awesome on T … Continue reading
More on My New Trans Narrative
A follow on thought relate to my last post…. One of the most familiar trans narratives is that of the person who is born into the wrong body, or feels trapped in the wrong body. Â That narrative has been repeated … Continue reading