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Category Archives: gender non-conforming
This book, more than 5 years in the making, is finally getting out into the world. Around 30 contributors share their personal experiences and journeys in discovering what gender means to them, in defying gender norms and finding a place … Continue reading
If you’d like to read what others have written about Xan West’s fantastic collection of queer kinky erotica, here is the entire blog tour itinerary: The stops on the blog tour: October 1: Xan West https://xanwest.wordpress.com/ October 2: Book Birthday! Go … Continue reading
Xan West is one of my favorite authors, a master at writing savory, sexy queer erotica that pulls the reader in until you forget you’re not part of the scene. It’s exciting to see the buzz rising for Xan’s anthology, … Continue reading
I’m not even going to pretend to be unbiased — I love Xan West‘s writing. I have been a fan since discovering Xan’s work ages ago. My fandom is mainly based on Xan’s ability to write hot, nuanced sex scenes … Continue reading
While talking to my boyfriend, Mal, the other day, we got on the topic of masculine fashion and our personal styles. I feel like my style borrows somewhat from my high school days, but also from my take on working … Continue reading
We were in a saltwater town on the peninsula, holding hands and kissing every chance we got. Sitting in one of the many pizza joints with a lot of other Seahawks fans watching the game, I looked across the table … Continue reading
Yesterday, I called my mom to talk to her about the next steps I’ll be taking in transition. I thought for a few rings that it would go to voicemail and I was relieved. Then she picked up. She sounded … Continue reading
Have you ever done that thing where you believe you’ve been considering and processing and evaluating something for a long time and then you realize that, no, you really weren’t? That’s where I am right now. And I know the … Continue reading
I’m working on an FAQ, one that I want to make available to co-workers, friends, family, etc. and I asked folks on Facebook to forward me questions that they thought I should address in my FAQ… I’ve gotten some great … Continue reading
Yesterday, I overheard a co-worker talking to a candidate for one of our proposals. The co-worker, Bob, was getting some additional information for me. Bob consistently and without hesitation used he/him/his when referring to me in that conversation. I wanted … Continue reading