Category Archives: community

Blog Tour for Me and My Boi

There’s a new Cleis Press Erotica Anthology out and it’s making a tour of blogs via the editor and many of the writers.  At the bottom of this post, I’ve added the full blog tour list, as well as how … Continue reading

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Cracking Open

From my post to social media: June 17, 2016 Sometimes I think I’ll just crack wide open from the weight of it all. All of it. The well of pain and grief that swallowed me whole this weekend. It’s heavy … Continue reading

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eLust #82, featuring Puppy Love…

Photo courtesy of Teachers Have Sex Welcome to Elust #82 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky … Continue reading

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New Features – Brainstorming and Ask Kyle Anything

As you may know, I’ve been working on a blog redesign (thank you Mel and Matt!) and thinking up new features and fun stuff.  I had an idea today I’d like to get your opinion. My idea is to get … Continue reading

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Guest Post on Sugarbutch Chronicles

Friend and fellow queer smut writer, Sinclair Sexsmith, extended a gracious invitation to be a guest poster to Sugarbutch Chronicles and I jumped at the chance.  My story, Tiger Stripes, posted there today. Go on, check it out and let … Continue reading

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Sexy Goodness: e[Lust] #75, including I Belong to You

Photo courtesy of Kilted Wookie Welcome to Elust #75 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions … Continue reading

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Lots of New Visitors: Hello!

There has been an influx of new readers lately, a lot of you connecting with my blog through the Slate article by Vanessa Vitiello Urquhart that I was quoted in. For the benefit of the new folks, here’s a little … Continue reading

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Update on the Butch/Femme Photo Project

It’s coming! It’s coming!  This December, we’re going to be able to get printed copies of the Butch/Femme Photo Project book by Wendi Kali. The culmination of the last few years of my life is about to happen. Yesterday I … Continue reading

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Help My Brother Recover from a Hate Crime

My brother Loba’s home was burned down by a homophobic neighbor (an uncle) and they are now homeless.  Loba has an Indiegogo campaign with a goal of $8000 to help buy a small camper, to give Loba a place to … Continue reading

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Swimming in the Deep End

My girlfriend, Oregon Girl, has a blog called Swimming in the Deep End. She’s smart and clever and writes insightful posts and sexy posts and poetry like this: real love tastes like freedom uncaged and limitless smells like petrichor earthy … Continue reading

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