Category Archives: butch/femme

Blog Tour for Me and My Boi

There’s a new Cleis Press Erotica Anthology out and it’s making a tour of blogs via the editor and many of the writers.  At the bottom of this post, I’ve added the full blog tour list, as well as how … Continue reading

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Interview with Xan West, author of Show Yourself To Me

Xan West is one of my favorite authors, a master at writing savory, sexy queer erotica that pulls the reader in until you forget you’re not part of the scene.  It’s exciting to see the buzz rising for Xan’s anthology, … Continue reading

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Book Review: Show Yourself To Me by Xan West

I’m not even going to pretend to be unbiased — I love Xan West‘s writing.  I have been a fan since discovering Xan’s work ages ago.  My fandom is mainly based on Xan’s ability to write hot, nuanced sex scenes … Continue reading

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#NaNoWriMo2014, handsome boy

[excerpt from day 27 of my NaNoWriMo2014 experience] I came back to the table with my beer and her cocktail, setting hers down before moving to sit across from her. “Uh… what do you think you’re doing, mister?” She lifted … Continue reading

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#NaNoWriMo2014 Day 26, Charming

I arrived at Andrea’s apartment building about ten minutes early.  I double checked the address, thought about buzzing her early but talked myself out of it.  I didn’t want to appear too eager.  I walked about a half block down … Continue reading

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#NaNoWriMo2014, Day 17: The Velvet Kitty

[Excerpt from my novel in progress, Guys Like Us] The Truck Stop was one of many gay bars in town but there was only one that catered only to lesbians. The Velvet Kitty was the latest incarnation of a space … Continue reading

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Update on the Butch/Femme Photo Project

It’s coming! It’s coming!  This December, we’re going to be able to get printed copies of the Butch/Femme Photo Project book by Wendi Kali. The culmination of the last few years of my life is about to happen. Yesterday I … Continue reading

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