Category Archives: bdsm

Say Please Virtual Book Tour

I’ve just signed on to participate in this blogging book tour for ‘Say Please:  Lesbian BDSM Erotica: April 1      Say Please release party in SF April 1 Viviane http://www.thesexcarnival.com April 3 Rachel Kramer Bussel http://lustylady.blogspot.com April 4 Giselle Renard http://donutsdesires.blogspot.com April 5 Evoe … Continue reading

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The sharp, sweet sting of Her love

I lie open to Her, exposed and vulnerable, and, as always, still trying to be the warrior, despite my exposure. She stands before me, strong stance, commanding eyes, steady grip on the flogger.  The chaotic world is still swirling around … Continue reading

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Gettin’ Busy with the New Year

Alrighty then.  After all this pondering energy and blockages and what I can do about it, it’s time to get pragmatic.  What am I gonna do, and how do I propose to do it? Before removing blockages, I must identify … Continue reading

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Butchtastic’s Third Birthday Contest… and the winner is…. Seth!

Here is the winning entry, chosen from several very good entries: My first and only time being collared i was collared years ago by someone who i thought was worthy of collaring me. Up until She collared me, there was … Continue reading

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Butchtastic’s Happy 3rd Blog Birthday Contest

To honor Butchtastic’s third birthday and also as a hat tip to both my subby and toppy sides, I am offering a leather collar to the winner of this contest. I’ve tried it on at most 3 times, for a … Continue reading

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Half-Nekkid Thursday: boy and his Sir

These were taken by my Sir, Roxy, as I worshiped at their feet in happy service.  Those boots were made to carry my Sir confidently and powerfully through the world.  And to be kissed by me. showing devotion happy in … Continue reading

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Hello, I’m Kyle…

… and I’m here to be used. I was at the Blood, Sweat and Queers party, sneaking text messages to her, letting her know the situation, how I was doing, trying to overcome my nerves.  I told her I was … Continue reading

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Link Love for July

Here are some websites, programs and organizations that have caught my eye in the past several weeks and I want to share them with you: First up, a place I hope to get to know very well, the Center for … Continue reading

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Queering it with Power Dynamics

I had a great time last night at the Queering Power Dynamics workshop put on by Sinclair Sexsmith.  Sinclair is a friend and a kick ass writer, as well as, a very smart and savvy teacher.  The workshop was at … Continue reading

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Queering Power Dynamics with Sinclair Sexsmith

Butch writer, teacher and performer Sinclair Sexsmith is hanging out in the Pacific Northwest this week and I’m heading up to Seattle tonight to take her Queering Power Dynamics class.  I’m really interested in this, Roxy and I both are, … Continue reading

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