Category Archives: bdsm

Question: What does ‘sub’ mean to you?

Is a little a sub? Sub is short for submissive.  You could say that a girl or boy submits to the authority of the Daddy/Mommy.  Well, unless you have a brat, like I do.  Neither of us considers Red a … Continue reading

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Black Hankie: You Earned It

My Dearest Lover, You are amazing, do you know that? I am still in awe of the nasty beating you took from NeighborFemme and me at BSQ earlier this month. And you thought you might not perform well enough to … Continue reading

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Feeling it

Feeling what? Toppy….

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BSQ: Boys, Sweat and Queersex

A few weeks ago, my lover and I made our way to Seattle to play hard at Blood, Sweat and Queers, a monthly play party at the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture.  It was a big night for us. … Continue reading

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Returning to the Dungeon

Tomorrow night I will be attending a public play party for the first time in two years.  The last time I went to the Seattle Center for Sex Positive Culture (nee The Wetspot), I was triple topped in a powerful … Continue reading

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Aggression, Anger and Topping: Finding the Way Through My Inner Maze

If I visualize my inner landscape as a maze, which isn’t hard to do, I can see my whole life as a journey toward the center of the maze.  What do I expect to find there?  I’m not sure, really, … Continue reading

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e[lust] #54 with ‘Three Stories Up’ and Other Salacious Tales

Photo courtesy of Gritty Woman Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll … Continue reading

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Last Night at Crowbar: A Painful and Necessary Bout of Therapy

As I rolled over to catch a few more moments of sleep this morning, my body greeted me with a chorus of pain.  After hearing from the unnumbered welts, scratches and bruises liberally distributed across my body, memories of the … Continue reading

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Reviewing Playing Well With Others

Playing Well With Others is exactly the book I wish I’d had about four years ago when I started getting serious about exploring my interest in kink and BDSM.   This humorous and thorough introduction to kink, BDSM and Leather communities … Continue reading

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Micro Fantasy: Fighting Impulse

I have a beautiful boy.  He’s strong and sexy and enthusiastic in his service.  He is an absolute pulsating mass of eagerness when it’s time to play.  I love that about him, that he is so ready to throw himself … Continue reading

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