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Hi, I'm Kyle. I'm a genderqueer butch writer, a parent, a jock, a geek and a lover. Want to know more about me?.
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Author Archives: Kyle
Don’t
Don’t. Don’t look at me that way, as if you know all you need to know about me. Stop. Don’t use that word, or those. I don’t care what you think or how you were raised. You’re wrong. I know, … Continue reading
Posted in anti-oppression work, finding me, gender, gender non-conforming
Tagged Genderqueer Identity, living my truth, spoken word
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: spring soccer
The spring soccer season is underway and my team is living up to its reputation as a tough team to beat, even though we almost didn’t have a team this year. A couple of players are out on maternity leave, … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: ElderSpawn Keeps Her Options Open
I had a very quick conversation with my ElderSpawn a couple of mornings ago about some rumors going around about her. This is the first I’d heard and I wanted to dig deeper into it, but she was literally on … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged parenting, Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Professionally Gender Neutral
My HR person gave me a nice post birthday present the other day. She was working on a proposal involving me (I’m a consultant, so we’re always working on the next contract and assignment). The proposals often involve writing paragraphs … Continue reading
New Anthology Wants You to Submit!
Oh wow, this is an awesome anthology theme, check this out: Once upon a time, in a dungeon far, far away, you were summoned to join the quest for the hottest and kinkiest retellings of your favorite fairy tales. I’m … Continue reading
Dear Zoro
Well, now I know you’re not an anonymous reader. You say you know me, that we had some kind of past involvement. You seem to be angry with me, unhappy at the very least. I would like to open a … Continue reading
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Writing: Inspiration, Fear and Love
There’s a TED talk that I recently watched and fell in love with (crushed a bit on the speaker, fell in love with the topic and delivery) that concerns creativity and the typical fate of successful artists. The speaker is … Continue reading
Now!
The flirting was hot and heavy, but it only made you want me more. I watched the other, amused, knowing who you’d go home with at the end of the night. If we lasted that long. A pause in the … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: Passing on the Family Business of Speaking Up For Yourself
I would like to share a Proud Parenting Moment concerning my Elder Spawn. Tonight she stood up for her beliefs and for what she wanted, in the face of opposition by some privileged, spoiled popular girls on her soccer team. … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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The sharp, sweet sting of Her love
I lie open to Her, exposed and vulnerable, and, as always, still trying to be the warrior, despite my exposure. She stands before me, strong stance, commanding eyes, steady grip on the flogger. The chaotic world is still swirling around … Continue reading







