Author Archives: Kyle

The sharp, sweet sting of Her love

Posted on February 15, 2012 by Kyle

I lie open to Her, exposed and vulnerable, and, as always, still trying to be the warrior, despite my exposure. She stands before me, strong stance, commanding eyes, steady grip on the flogger.  The chaotic world is still swirling around … Continue reading →

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Into her arms

Posted on February 9, 2012 by Kyle

Later today, I’ll board a jet and head south to the Bay Area.  I’ll arrive late, but she’ll be there.  My lover.  My partner.  My best friend and hand-fasted mate.  She’ll be there with a smile and kisses and wonderfully … Continue reading →

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Suburban Butch Dad Report: a groom to be?

Posted on February 6, 2012 by Kyle

If you’re tracking queer related news in the US, you probably noticed that Washington State took a big step toward legalizing queer marriages the other day.  Elder Spawn and I went to the capitol to be on hand for part … Continue reading →

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Note to self…

Posted on February 5, 2012 by Kyle

… when your lover is having a hard time, and sharing with you, and it’s difficult and challenging for her to share, remember:  It’s not about you, don’t make it about you, step back and open up and be there … Continue reading →

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Butch Answers

Posted on February 5, 2012 by Kyle

A few days ago, I posted a list of questions related to my butch identity, for a butch photography project.  Here are my answers: Questionnaire 1. Where are you from?   I’m from Olympia, Washington, which, contrary to what some believe, is not … Continue reading →

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Butch Questions

Posted on February 1, 2012 by Kyle

Last year, in the spring I think it was, I drove to Seattle to take  part in a butch photography project by SD Holman.  At the time, I was sent a questionnaire to complete for the project.  I worked on … Continue reading →

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Something new for me, serving as a selection Juror for SEAF

Posted on January 30, 2012 by Kyle

I have accepted an invitation to be a juror for the Literary Art exhibit at SEAF (Seattle Erotic Art Festival) for 2012.  Last year both Roxy and I submitted work and were accepted as exhibitors.  Seeing my story in print … Continue reading →

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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…

Posted on January 29, 2012 by Kyle

Did I suck you in with that?  Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people?  Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys?  Or.. or… yeah, no.  It did kinda … Continue reading →

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missing her

Posted on January 26, 2012 by Kyle

There are times when I miss her so purely it’s as if a hole has opened up in my center, open and aching for her.  There’s just so much going on lately, for both of us, we don’t get the … Continue reading →

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let there be light

Posted on January 24, 2012 by Kyle

For those who were wondering, we have gotten back on the grid at Chez Jones.  We were off for 85 hours, got our power back at 9:15 pm, Sunday night.  Yesterday, the temp came up outside and the sun came … Continue reading →

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