Enough of the down voting

I am aware, through down voting and frankly unkind comments, that some people who visit this blog are not fans.  Honestly, if you don’t like what I’m doing, I don’t understand why you keep coming back.

A month or so ago, someone who had been a fan of this blog became an unfan.  She told me off and said that I wasn’t interesting any more since I wasn’t involved with and posting about Roxy.  Well.  So basically, someone who had claimed to be supportive and happy for me when I was happy, was really only happy when I was happy for reasons they approved of.  Huh, sounds kind of abusive and controlling, doesn’t it?

Well, fuck that.  If you can’t celebrate my happiness regardless, you’re no friend of mine.  I don’t know that this same person is the one who hit my recent posts with ‘thumbs down’, but who ever it is can also fuck off.  If you have something to say, leave a comment or email me.  I’m removing the passive route.  That also means I don’t get the thumbs up, but I’ll take that hit.

If you have something to say to me about what I post, fucking say it.

Right now, I am happy in a way I haven’t been happy in a long time.  I’m in love with my fabulous girlfriend, OregonGirl.  I’m having a very loving and sexy friendship with Hippy Goddess.  I have a wife and kids and a great career and community.  Life is good and I’m going to talk about it and not apologize to those who wish my life hadn’t changed in the past couple of years.  Hey guess what?  Life happens, get with the program or get left behind.  I’m happy and if you’re not interested in hearing about it or celebrating that with me, find another blog to read.  Take your negativity and your bullshit elsewhere.

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