Monthly Archives: February 2012

Writing: Inspiration, Fear and Love

Posted on February 25, 2012 by Kyle

There’s a TED talk that I recently watched and fell in love with (crushed a bit on the speaker, fell in love with the topic and delivery) that concerns creativity and the typical fate of successful artists.  The speaker is … Continue reading →

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Now!

Posted on February 23, 2012 by Kyle

The flirting was hot and heavy, but it only made you want me more.  I watched the other, amused, knowing who you’d go home with at the end of the night.  If we lasted that long. A pause in the … Continue reading →

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Suburban Butch Dad Report: Passing on the Family Business of Speaking Up For Yourself

Posted on February 22, 2012 by Kyle

I would like to share a Proud Parenting Moment concerning my Elder Spawn.  Tonight she stood up for her beliefs and for what she wanted, in the face of opposition by some privileged, spoiled popular girls on her soccer team. … Continue reading →

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The sharp, sweet sting of Her love

Posted on February 15, 2012 by Kyle

I lie open to Her, exposed and vulnerable, and, as always, still trying to be the warrior, despite my exposure. She stands before me, strong stance, commanding eyes, steady grip on the flogger.  The chaotic world is still swirling around … Continue reading →

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Into her arms

Posted on February 9, 2012 by Kyle

Later today, I’ll board a jet and head south to the Bay Area.  I’ll arrive late, but she’ll be there.  My lover.  My partner.  My best friend and hand-fasted mate.  She’ll be there with a smile and kisses and wonderfully … Continue reading →

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Suburban Butch Dad Report: a groom to be?

Posted on February 6, 2012 by Kyle

If you’re tracking queer related news in the US, you probably noticed that Washington State took a big step toward legalizing queer marriages the other day.  Elder Spawn and I went to the capitol to be on hand for part … Continue reading →

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Note to self…

Posted on February 5, 2012 by Kyle

… when your lover is having a hard time, and sharing with you, and it’s difficult and challenging for her to share, remember:  It’s not about you, don’t make it about you, step back and open up and be there … Continue reading →

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Butch Answers

Posted on February 5, 2012 by Kyle

A few days ago, I posted a list of questions related to my butch identity, for a butch photography project.  Here are my answers: Questionnaire 1. Where are you from?   I’m from Olympia, Washington, which, contrary to what some believe, is not … Continue reading →

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Butch Questions

Posted on February 1, 2012 by Kyle

Last year, in the spring I think it was, I drove to Seattle to take  part in a butch photography project by SD Holman.  At the time, I was sent a questionnaire to complete for the project.  I worked on … Continue reading →

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