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Monthly Archives: February 2012
Writing: Inspiration, Fear and Love
There’s a TED talk that I recently watched and fell in love with (crushed a bit on the speaker, fell in love with the topic and delivery) that concerns creativity and the typical fate of successful artists. The speaker is … Continue reading
Now!
The flirting was hot and heavy, but it only made you want me more. I watched the other, amused, knowing who you’d go home with at the end of the night. If we lasted that long. A pause in the … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: Passing on the Family Business of Speaking Up For Yourself
I would like to share a Proud Parenting Moment concerning my Elder Spawn. Tonight she stood up for her beliefs and for what she wanted, in the face of opposition by some privileged, spoiled popular girls on her soccer team. … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Spawn1, suburban butch dad
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The sharp, sweet sting of Her love
I lie open to Her, exposed and vulnerable, and, as always, still trying to be the warrior, despite my exposure. She stands before me, strong stance, commanding eyes, steady grip on the flogger. The chaotic world is still swirling around … Continue reading
Into her arms
Later today, I’ll board a jet and head south to the Bay Area. I’ll arrive late, but she’ll be there. My lover. My partner. My best friend and hand-fasted mate. She’ll be there with a smile and kisses and wonderfully … Continue reading
Posted in relationships, slices of life
Tagged love beyond time, polyamorous, relationships, Roxy
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Suburban Butch Dad Report: a groom to be?
If you’re tracking queer related news in the US, you probably noticed that Washington State took a big step toward legalizing queer marriages the other day. Elder Spawn and I went to the capitol to be on hand for part … Continue reading
Posted in relationships
Tagged marriage equality, Mrs. Kyle, poly is hard, polyamorous, relationships, Roxy
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Note to self…
… when your lover is having a hard time, and sharing with you, and it’s difficult and challenging for her to share, remember: It’s not about you, don’t make it about you, step back and open up and be there … Continue reading
Butch Answers
A few days ago, I posted a list of questions related to my butch identity, for a butch photography project. Here are my answers: Questionnaire 1. Where are you from? I’m from Olympia, Washington, which, contrary to what some believe, is not … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, butches, gender non-conforming
Tagged butch, genderqueer, identity
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Butch Questions
Last year, in the spring I think it was, I drove to Seattle to take part in a butch photography project by SD Holman. At the time, I was sent a questionnaire to complete for the project. I worked on … Continue reading


