Monthly Archives: January 2012

Something new for me, serving as a selection Juror for SEAF

I have accepted an invitation to be a juror for the Literary Art exhibit at SEAF (Seattle Erotic Art Festival) for 2012.  Last year both Roxy and I submitted work and were accepted as exhibitors.  Seeing my story in print … Continue reading

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The fascinating life of a sex blogger…

Did I suck you in with that?  Were you hoping for lurid tales of public sex and parties with fancy people?  Or maybe hours-long intimate sessions with my vast collection of sex toys?  Or.. or… yeah, no.  It did kinda … Continue reading

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missing her

There are times when I miss her so purely it’s as if a hole has opened up in my center, open and aching for her.  There’s just so much going on lately, for both of us, we don’t get the … Continue reading

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let there be light

For those who were wondering, we have gotten back on the grid at Chez Jones.  We were off for 85 hours, got our power back at 9:15 pm, Sunday night.  Yesterday, the temp came up outside and the sun came … Continue reading

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snowed in

Just a quick hello from my snow and ice bound, and powerless, home.  We’re pushing 80+ hours off the grid, but are doing alright due to some preparedness and the awesomeness of friends and neighbors.  We’ve got a generator, which … Continue reading

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PSA: Why SOPA/PIPA screws the pootch for everyone

I’m gonna let a smart guy tell you about SOPA/PIPA and why we need to make sure the House and Senate resoundingly defeat these bills. Khan Academy on SOPA/PIPA If you don’t know what Khan Academy is, it’s an excellent … Continue reading

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Changing the World Begins *here*

There is a lot I’d like to change about the world, a lot that frustrates me, plenty that makes me grieve for my fellow earthlings.  It’s easy to lay blame, to say ‘someone oughta do something!’, and I’m certainly guilty … Continue reading

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Reviewing Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica

When Cleis Press contacted me about reviewing this book, Take Me There: Trans and Genderqueer Erotica, I responded immediately. I’d been waiting for this to come out and had been kicking myself over not knowing about it in time to … Continue reading

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Gettin’ Busy with the New Year

Alrighty then.  After all this pondering energy and blockages and what I can do about it, it’s time to get pragmatic.  What am I gonna do, and how do I propose to do it? Before removing blockages, I must identify … Continue reading

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