Monthly Archives: December 2011

For Roxy: at midnight, think of me

Hello there, angel.  Another year is kicking the bucket and a new one is about to draw its first breaths.  You know I’d be with you, kissing you as the clock strikes midnight if I could. And, at midnight, I’ll … Continue reading

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A little holiday brag

I did very well these holidays, gifts-wise.  In fact, it was quite the butchtastic Christmas for me (and man-rific, fab-boy-lous). My wife gave me two ties:  one silver on silver (will look great with  my new black button down) and … Continue reading

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Looking forward with Salacious magazine in 2012

Did you know that Salacious magazine will be publishing its Leather issue in the coming months? I didn’t submit anything for that round, but I’ll be ordering a copy because it’s bound to be good. I did submit a story … Continue reading

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Breathe deep, remove blockage and get in the flow

A graphic entitled ‘6 habits of happiness worth cultivating‘ has been circulating through my Facebook peers recently.  Six brightly colored circles with good advice for reducing stress, getting more out of life and generally being happier.  Yesterday, I discovered a … Continue reading

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Looking ahead to a new year of potential

This time of year, we’re given the darkest nights and the shortest days, leading toward less physical but perhaps more mental activity. The weather also conspires to drive us inside, both physically and emotionally.  This is a traditional time to … Continue reading

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Suburban Butch Dad Report: why are some things girl’s and some things boy’s?

Every school morning, my elder daughter and I are up together in the pre-dawn gray eating breakfast, making lunches and gearing up for the day.  She’s in middle school now, so she has one less hour to hang out in … Continue reading

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Having a bad Gender Day

It’s happened to all of us, the haircut that suddenly doesn’t work, or something about the humidity that causes our hair to refuse to do what we want it to.  Bad hair days happen.  And as I found out this … Continue reading

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