Monthly Archives: October 2011

Occupy… Butch Voices?

Posted on October 29, 2011 by Kyle

No, no, I’m not suggesting people bring tents to the next Butch Voices conference.  I am suggesting there’s something to be learned from the Occupy movement that can be applied to other areas, including movements hoping to empower groups that … Continue reading →

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After Glow

Posted on October 22, 2011 by Kyle

We’ve been feeling sexy and romantic lately and this morning she started telling me about a story she was imagining, of us in a barn.  She gave me a few details and asked if I could write the story for … Continue reading →

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on my use of ‘namaste’

Posted on October 21, 2011 by Kyle

I just got a comment from a reader calling themselves, IndianRoots, who was questioning my use of the word ‘namaste’ in this blog.  This concerned reader asked that their comment not be published, which is fine, but they also didn’t … Continue reading →

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Butchtastic’s Third Birthday Contest… and the winner is…. Seth!

Posted on October 21, 2011 by Kyle

Here is the winning entry, chosen from several very good entries: My first and only time being collared i was collared years ago by someone who i thought was worthy of collaring me. Up until She collared me, there was … Continue reading →

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Contestants, thank you!

Posted on October 16, 2011 by Kyle

You sent me great entries and entreaties, hoping to be the recipient of the leather collar I’m giving away to celebrate Butchtastic’s third birthday.  I had a helluva weekend, but I’ll be making the  (very difficult) choice soon.  Thank you so … Continue reading →

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Butchtastic’s Happy 3rd Blog Birthday Contest

Posted on October 6, 2011 by Kyle

To honor Butchtastic’s third birthday and also as a hat tip to both my subby and toppy sides, I am offering a leather collar to the winner of this contest. I’ve tried it on at most 3 times, for a … Continue reading →

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Three Years of Butchtastic: 10/6/2008 – 2011

Posted on October 5, 2011 by Kyle

Today marks end of three years of Butchtastic:  blogging and beers, bromance and babes, butches and BDSM…. and a whole lot more.  If you’ve been here for most of that ride, you’ve seen me at the beginning of my poly … Continue reading →

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The season for anniversaries

Posted on October 2, 2011 by Kyle

From September and into the new year, there is a list of special dates to celebrate: September 7th: my wife and I celebrated our 18th anniversary  October 6th:  Butchtastic is 3 years old October 14th:  4 years of polyamory November … Continue reading →

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