Monthly Archives: September 2011

What I want from my Kink Encounters

Posted on September 29, 2011 by Kyle

A few nights ago, I was talking to Roxy and as usual, she helped me find clarity where there was previously just lusty mud.  In my Surge post, I/we were expressing impatience with ourselves over not making progress toward our … Continue reading →

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Airport Security (again): another chapter in the story of my packy and the TSA

Posted on September 26, 2011 by Kyle

Well, it happened again, for the first time since my post holiday incident in 2010.  I’ve been through airport security several times since then, through the old-fashioned metal detectors and at least once through the newfangled body scanners with no … Continue reading →

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surge

Posted on September 21, 2011 by Kyle

I’m feeling it right now, that surge from him.  He’s frustrated at our lack of progress.  We’ve been trying things lately, new sometimes scary things.  We put an ad out on a men for men site and got some interest, … Continue reading →

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New blog to add to the collection: Tranarchism

Posted on September 20, 2011 by Kyle

I found this blog via Jessie Lee (Gendercast) on Facebook, who posted a link to this article on ally-ship:  You keep using that word ‘Ally’.  I do not think it means what you think it means.  It’s short and sweet … Continue reading →

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Half-Nekkid Thursday: trussed up

Posted on September 15, 2011 by Kyle

Who needs ankle cuffs when you can bind a guy up in his jeans and briefs?  Sir has me right where they want me on a ‘break’ for ‘quality time’ at the Butch Voices conference.  This was Saturday, sometime after I’d … Continue reading →

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Staying in touch

Posted on September 15, 2011 by Kyle

Hey, y’all.  I’m still here, still genderqueer… I’ve been working on a sexy story the past couple of days based on a prompt by Roxy:  Service Station.  I thought it’d be a hot and heavy quickie, but once I started … Continue reading →

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Reviewing the Rodeoh harness from Babeland

Posted on September 10, 2011 by Kyle

Roxy and I met Rachel Venning (Babeland co-owner) on Friday at Butch Voices and didn’t see her again for the rest of the weekend.  If we had, we would have thanked her, on behalf of her company, for sending me … Continue reading →

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Hands on

Posted on September 9, 2011 by Kyle

The breathy, half-moan caught my attention and swung it around sharply. “Oh, wow, baby… ” “mmhmmm… mmmm… you gonna join me?” The half invitation, half challenge purred into my ear and I didn’t hesitate.  Quickly unzipping my shorts, I slid … Continue reading →

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Being Present is Where I Need to Be

Posted on September 8, 2011 by Kyle

I had a crappy morning yesterday.  So crappy I don’t even want to go into it right now, but the day got better and I owe a lot to Roxy for that improvement. Later I realize that I turned the … Continue reading →

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Hotel Window

Posted on September 5, 2011 by Kyle

Standing in the hotel window, I hear my lover moving behind me. “Don’t move.” I smile to myself and remain there, buck naked, watching the morning light caress the streets of Oakland.  ’Don’t Move’ is code for, hold that pose … Continue reading →

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