Lately, I’ve been trudging through the blunt reality of ‘poly is hard’, but today is a good day and I am feeling big love and trust and gratitude… these are things I want to remember:

Have faith

remember what’s important

make the phone call

trust that my partner will stand up for/take care of herself

be present

sitting quietly with her *is* doing something

love is better/bigger/more authentic when it’s generous and open

my heart is big enough to love her loves, too

honesty — open, generous, trusting, brave honesty — is the best policy

I can be brave, and honest, and open, and scared and support her in her pursuit of happiness

I am not the only one who makes her happy, and that’s ok, the more happy, the better



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2 Responses to Lessons…

  1. Roxy says:

    Thank you, my love. You are wonderful and loving and brave, and I’m so lucky to have you as my partner. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 🙂

    Your love is one of the best things to ever happen to me. Thank you for your faith in me, your patience and the strength of your love for me. It is my honor to work hard to deserve that love, every day. I adore you 🙂 – K

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