Lately, I’ve been trudging through the blunt reality of ‘poly is hard’, but today is a good day and I am feeling big love and trust and gratitude… these are things I want to remember:
Have faith
remember what’s important
make the phone call
trust that my partner will stand up for/take care of herself
be present
sitting quietly with her *is* doing something
love is better/bigger/more authentic when it’s generous and open
my heart is big enough to love her loves, too
honesty — open, generous, trusting, brave honesty — is the best policy
I can be brave, and honest, and open, and scared and support her in her pursuit of happiness
I am not the only one who makes her happy, and that’s ok, the more happy, the better
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Thank you, my love. You are wonderful and loving and brave, and I’m so lucky to have you as my partner. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
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