Lately, I’ve been trudging through the blunt reality of ‘poly is hard’, but today is a good day and I am feeling big love and trust and gratitude… these are things I want to remember:

Have faith

remember what’s important

make the phone call

trust that my partner will stand up for/take care of herself

be present

sitting quietly with her *is* doing something

love is better/bigger/more authentic when it’s generous and open

my heart is big enough to love her loves, too

honesty — open, generous, trusting, brave honesty — is the best policy

I can be brave, and honest, and open, and scared and support her in her pursuit of happiness

I am not the only one who makes her happy, and that’s ok, the more happy, the better



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