Monthly Archives: April 2011

Butch 360: fashion mishaps

G has rounded up some butch fashion horror stories for your enjoyment.  My story is about the last time I wore a dress.  The horror of it is I was an adult, away from my mother’s desperately frantic feminizing influence. … Continue reading

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Transphobia in the news

Sadly, transphobia isn’t new, and these stories are just a few in a long, horrible history of people mistreating gender outlaws. It’s ok, she’s not a real woman First up, a story that’s made an ugly splash all over my … Continue reading

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Roxy’s April visit

I will write my own bits about our spring vacation time together, but wanted to alert you to pictures Roxy posted today from day one. 00   

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The Butch Nod

The Butch nod.  The chin lift.  A corner-of-the-mouth smile and a lifted eyebrow.  Recognition, acknowledgement of a brotherhood amongst transmasculine gender outlaws.  I invite it, offer it, look for it, but I don’t always get it. This afternoon, Roxy and I … Continue reading

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New Additions to the B/G/T Blog List

The big sexy, hot, smart, fierce, masculine, amazing, handsome, strong, sweet, thoughtful, bulging, turgid list of Butch, Genderqueer, Genderfluid, Genderfucking, Masculine-of-Center and Trans Blogs Every couple of weeks, I discover a new blog or two that belongs on my list … Continue reading

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the Olympia Arts Perspective Piece: Missing Person

This is the piece I read at the Olympia Arts Perspective Reception for their show, Variables, Week 3:  X + Y.  Much thanks to Lindsey Tunkl for organizing the event and inviting me to read.   Missing Person There are … Continue reading

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Butch Lab Symposium #2, the round up

Butch Lab’s second Symposium is about Stereotypes and Misconceptions around butch identity. Ali Oh at Made of Words: Bottoms Up, Thumbs Up: Now apparently masculine-of-center people aren’t supposed to be bottoms. In fact, one of Jae’s former girlfriends called her … Continue reading

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It’s Roxy Time

She’s on her way, my sweet lover/bestfriend.  In an hour and a half I’ll head to the airport to collect her and her big bag of mischief.  We have until Monday morning.  We’re gonna love every minute of it. 00 … Continue reading

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A Writer’s Life: appearing soon in Salacious #2

I mentioned in an earlier post that I’d submitted a few stories to different publications and events.  On Sunday, I found out that one of those stories was selected by Salacious for its second issue, centered around the topic of … Continue reading

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Bachelor week: progress report

Let’s see, it’s Tuesday, so I’m almost a week into my bachelor time here at the House of Kyle.   Let’s catch up a little. Friday night, I headed downtown to the Brotherhood, one of my favorite bars to hang … Continue reading

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