-
Hi, I'm Kyle. I'm a genderqueer butch writer, a parent, a jock, a geek and a lover. Want to know more about me?
Follow Kyle on twitter... Please send me an email first, so I know who's making the request. Same with my Facebook page, send me a message when you friend request me.
Ask Kyle a question via Formspring.me
Glories of Female Sweat, my tumblr
Gay Like This, a tumblr collaboration between Roxy and me
My Lesbian Radio Golden Kitty 2012 Winner
NaNoWriMo 2012 Winner
-
-
Monthly Archives: December 2010
Fittingly, I submitted to a BDSM Anthology
Yes, as of last night, I have a horse in that race.. the race being a call for Lesbian BDSM Erotica for an anthology being edited by Sinclair Sexsmith. So far I know of two others who’ve taking the plunge, … Continue reading
New Blogs for My B/T/GQ list
You might not know it, but I keep a list of blogs by butch, trans and genderqueer people. Here are the latest additions: New as of 12/29/2010: ButchLab: Sinclair Sexsmith’s latest contribution to the community: The mission of the … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, butches, community
Tagged butch, community, genderqueer, transgender
1 Comment
Suburban Butch Dad Report: closing out 2010
As the last week of 2010 meanders along, I’m busy with holiday related activities, my family and fulfilling my personal goals. We had a pretty good Christmas with a holiday party on the Eve, then family brunch at our house … Continue reading
Posted in parenting, Suburban Butch Dad Report
Tagged Mrs. Kyle, parenting, Roxy, Spawn1, Spawn2, suburban butch dad
1 Comment
Trim the fat, leave the muscle and bone
When I was younger, I used to think the real trick of writing was knowing how to get the right words on the page. That’s no small feat, to be sure, but as I begin to work toward becoming a … Continue reading
Suburban Butch Dad Report: 11 years ago today….
I woke up at about 1:20 am this morning and lay awake for a while thinking about what was going on 11 years ago at that moment. I was on an operating table, numb from the tits down, my arms … Continue reading
Airport Security and Gender Deviance.. different people, different approaches
Folks who’ve been reading this blog for a while know my story about getting special attention from TSA due to my packy being seen — and not understood — by a full-body scanner. This was before the latest rash of … Continue reading
Butchlab: Sexsmith’s new experiment in butch identity and community
Not long ago, Sinclair Sexsmith started teasing us about a new Butch-oriented project she was working on. I kept watching my reader for more information but Sexsmith kept us all waiting until yesterday, when she announced ButchLab was online. What’s … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, butches, ButchLab, community, exploring gender, gender
Tagged butch, community, gender, genderqueer, identity, Roxy
Leave a comment
Survey Says ….
Shanna Katz, one of my very favorite sex educators, posted about a study about Queer Women and Gender Diverse people. The survey has questions about sexual identity, sexual activity, gender identity and the like. There were some areas where I … Continue reading
Posted in butch/trans/genderqueer, butches, gender, surveys
Tagged gender, sexual identity, survey
2 Comments
Pizza Klatch: We had to make a tough call
… that’s why we get paid the big bucks, right? So far I’ve co-facilitated two Pizza Klatch lunches at my alma mater and already, we’ve had some unexpected challenges. For our inaugural week, we had great attendance for both lunches, … Continue reading
Microfantasy *not* Monday : Asphalt
Once upon a time, there was a group of bloggers who heeded the weekly whims of a wonderful red-headed woman who’d call the tune we’d all dance to. That was Microfantasy Monday and she is the Sweltering Celt. I fell … Continue reading